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My First Time Out as Wilamina  

WilaminaTV 66T  
12 posts
1/10/2017 10:46 am

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7/5/2019 2:47 pm

My First Time Out as Wilamina

I thought it’d be a good idea to share with you the first time I went out as Wilamina. Some of my friends have asked about this and many gurls on this site are intimidated about the idea of stepping out into the real world. I hope this helps some of you step out.

I, like many I suppose, started out in the fantasy world of dressing in the closet, in secret, and alone. I have always loved to dress up and to put on makeup, hose, panties a bra and imagine the possibilities. Playing games with myself in lingerie and just fantasizing. This is great fun after all. The next step …

I met with a dominatricis in real life for a while, I was her sissy slut. Oh, yes that was fabulous. I would fully dress, makeup, wig, the whole nine yards. We had fun, and I learned a lot about myself from our sessions. I owe her a big debt of gratitude. I would go out and bring her luggage into the hotel room. Ignoring the stares around us. The session you can read about in one of my other posts if you wish.

I began to desire to go out and see the world and so I did some research to determine the best places to go here in the Phoenix area. It turns out there are places to go off of Indian School and around the 7th street and avenue areas. I also discovered Glamour Boutique dot com and bought a few necessary items to help complete the look. Silicone breasts, hip pads, etc. I shopped for new clothes and shoes. DSW is great for shoes, Dillard’s, Macy’s, Penney’s, Goodwill are some of the places I love to shop, try on clothes and have fun in the moment. I get most of my makeup at Walmart, good prices and lots of selection and spend time on-line watching makeup tutorials. This does pay off, lots of great tips and tricks there. But yet I digress … back to my first night out.

I shaved everything, cleaned up everything, donned my make up (see an upcoming make up blog for an outline), wig, boobs, panties, hose, dress, heels, perfume (I just love wearing perfume) and was ready. Yikes, did I look okay, no way I’m passing (well in pitch black maybe), and headed out to Cruisin’ 7th. I drove down feeling some trepidation, some excitement and some wonder in that I felt comfortable and completely at peace.

I walked in, well I started to and some guys across the street whistled at me and asked if I wanted to come over, that was a bit disconcerting but I ignored them, then walked in. I was a bit early (around 8:30 or so) as so it wasn’t very crowded. I set at the bar and had a drink. The people behind the bar were fabulous, so friendly, so nice and so completely accepting. It turns out that on the first Friday of the month there is a blues band there, I strutted over and took a set at a table to watch the band. Everyone was so friendly and kind, people came up to me to chat (not to pick me up necessarily just to talk) I met some wonderful people and felt right at home.

I was rocking this short black dress (I still love that dress, see pic of me now in that dress), and my new boobs, I felt great. I still feel that feeling each time I dress; I love the way it transforms me. And not just because I look so much better as a gurl, but the way it makes me feel. It transforms my persona, it completes me, and I become what I was meant to be. Oh don’t get me wrong, I am content with my equipment and I’m going to keep it, after all it was a present from my mother. I am very, very happy to be a t-gurl and all that goes with it. I like myself so much better now and especially when I’m dressed.

Bottom line I had a fantastic experience and have loved to go out ever since. I go out when I can, and when you do you also begin to get a better sense of self, how to carry yourself, get practice with the makeup and have a better idea how to be the gurl you wish to be.

A great place to start is to join the Meetup group Arizona Transgender, great gurls there, and they go out at least once a month. In mass with them is an easy way to ease to trepidation and anxiety of your first time out.

I hope to see you out there.

Kisses, Wilamina




johnrussell2017 73M
1 post
2/25/2019 1:19 pm

I just read your blog for the first time. After dating Tg women, this is the first time I think I understood what they felt the first time they went out.


freddie8951 72M/70F
133 posts
5/31/2017 11:01 am

Totally love that dress on you


Gina_L07 67T
387 posts
2/18/2017 7:12 am

Thanks for sharing hon. There are also support groups in most larger cities who get together and venture out to clubs in groups. Good luck and be safe. Ciao.

Gina


freddie8951 72M/70F
133 posts
1/19/2017 1:36 pm

love your pics. Thanks for inviting me as a friend. Hope to meet you in the future


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