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A what the fuck kind of day  

nerdygirl721 34F  
2071 posts
12/18/2016 12:05 pm
A what the fuck kind of day


I woke up to at least 20 missed calls. Two of my female friends "broke up" with their "boyfriends". I put it in quotes because neither of these relationships were long term and one only lasted a month, the oher 2 months. Both these girls are just crying the ugly cry and I'm just like really?

Not to be insensitive but what the fuck? I know I'm not the most emotionally mature person, but I did try to listen and be there for them. This was the start of my headache.

After that, I realized I ran out of nighttime training pants for my . I bundle her up go out to the car and yep my car won't start, just great. Being that it's cold as fuck I had her waiting in the hallway, while I try to find someone with jumper cables.

No one has any fucking cables in this whole fucking building, except this guy that has been trying to fuck me for years. So I had to ask if I could use his cables. This dick asked what do I get for helping you. I ask what do you want, as if I didn't know. He wants to fuck me for his help. Of course he does.

So I agreed to it with no intention of following through with my end. My car got it's jump and I sent him some pics since I wont be fucking him.

The day hasn't ended yet, so I'm figuring I'll have some more fuckery to deal with. With that in mind, I'm staying in, turning off my phone and saying fuck it.

Am I wrong for having no intention of upholding my end of the bargain?


scott6250 61M

12/18/2016 1:02 pm

Happy Sunday!

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sphxdiver 74M
21063 posts
12/18/2016 1:58 pm

Just another day in the life.

some are good and some aren't !!


BabyGirlTay74 49F
507 posts
12/18/2016 3:11 pm

You are not wrong at all. It was douche bag move to even ask that for help and you had your kid! If asks about it, I would be OMG you were serious I thought you were trying to be funny.

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MissCinders 58F
1533 posts
12/18/2016 3:27 pm

Its going to be a long winter so make sure you get some jumper cables so you dont have to ask this asshat for help again.


nerdygirl721 34F  
1176 posts
12/18/2016 3:39 pm

Happy Sunday. Hope you're staying warm. {=}


nerdygirl721 34F  
1176 posts
12/18/2016 3:40 pm

    Quoting sphxdiver:
    Just another day in the life.

    some are good and some aren't !!
Don't I know it. Happy holidays


nerdygirl721 34F  
1176 posts
12/18/2016 3:43 pm

    Quoting BabyGirlTay74:
    You are not wrong at all. It was douche bag move to even ask that for help and you had your kid! If asks about it, I would be OMG you were serious I thought you were trying to be funny.
Luckily my daughter was in the house and she didn't hear him. But he is a douchebag that I have no intention of fucking.


nerdygirl721 34F  
1176 posts
12/18/2016 3:45 pm

    Quoting MissCinders:
    Its going to be a long winter so make sure you get some jumper cables so you dont have to ask this asshat for help again.
As soon as my car started I went to go buy some, I can't afford to be shit out of luck next time. It's too cold for that. Thanks for commenting


wantaplay8 71M
5606 posts
12/18/2016 4:43 pm

keep jumper cables, a blanket,extra gloves, hat, cat litter, tow strap and a small snow shovel in the car during the winter. I keep some of that list in the truck year round. You never know when someone or yourself will need the help. If you don't wear boots during the winter I would keep a pair of them in the car too.


BrownEyedBBW 55F  
8831 posts
12/18/2016 6:08 pm

Am I wrong for having no intention of upholding my end of the bargain?

Succinctly, yes, but not for the reason you think.

What he did was a sleazy move. However, you used his desire to fuck you to get him to a favor for you. And when you say you sent him some pics, were they sexual or sensual in nature?

You are playing a dangerous game that we as women need to stop playing. There are two considerations here. First, you are most likely to be assaulted (in any manner) by someone you know, not a stranger. Next, you never know what sort of thing can flip a switch from "annoying neighbour" into something more predatory.

You potentially put yourself in danger and that's what is wrong here on your end. I'm *not* saying you should fuck this guy, never fuck anyone you don't want to. However, you need to exercise caution when making promises in exchange for favors.

One thing everyone should have is some sort of emergency service for their car. AAA is probably the most popular, but check with your insurance, I have good coverage through my insurance that is just part of my premium.

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nerdygirl721 34F  
1176 posts
12/18/2016 6:27 pm

    Quoting BrownEyedBBW:
    Am I wrong for having no intention of upholding my end of the bargain?

    Succinctly, yes, but not for the reason you think.

    What he did was a sleazy move. However, you used his desire to fuck you to get him to a favor for you. And when you say you sent him some pics, were they sexual or sensual in nature?

    You are playing a dangerous game that we as women need to stop playing. There are two considerations here. First, you are most likely to be assaulted (in any manner) by someone you know, not a stranger. Next, you never know what sort of thing can flip a switch from "annoying neighbour" into something more predatory.

    You potentially put yourself in danger and that's what is wrong here on your end. I'm *not* saying you should fuck this guy, never fuck anyone you don't want to. However, you need to exercise caution when making promises in exchange for favors.

    One thing everyone should have is some sort of emergency service for their car. AAA is probably the most popular, but check with your insurance, I have good coverage through my insurance that is just part of my premium.

    I kvetch because I care.
You're right, as a single female there is always a potential danger and if I didn't have prior 7 yr history with this guy, I wouldn't have approached him for help. I did try to offer to pay him, but he refused. I did buy some jumper cables and another person offered great tips on what to have in my car for situations like this. I appreciate your concern, explanation and advice. I'm open to learning and appreciate your positive response.

The pics was more sensual than sexual.


Otis_Good 71M
4037 posts
12/19/2016 11:31 am

Reminds me of something that happened to me when i was a young and tender age . I was working up at the main office of the old mans empire . I was in charge of distribution of energy .. Well it wasn't all that there was only regular and premium back in those days but my poppa he had eyes of being a high roller someday . .
Damn it damn it to hell , I heard that old man say after hanging up the phone . Everybody is gone only me and that stupid Otis and Mrs Hall she needs her car jumped off . Now normally I would have taken officiousness in what the old man had said but it was true I didn't have enough sense to pour piss out of a boot without getting all wet . Surely if he was to leave me alone with his vast empire even the ten minutes what that it would take to get MRS Hall on her merry way when he got back most likely I would have traded the whole business for a hand full of beans


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12/31/2016 2:52 pm

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cs1df2 41M
1463 posts
1/7/2017 6:07 am

Since everyone else already answered on the question - I'm going to say I had a day like that while driving to see family before Christmas. Almost the entire drive from northern Alabama to central Minnesota was filled with WTF-moments -- it like there were a whole lot of people that were sitting in the driver's seat of their vehicle that were doing everything they could ...other than drive.

Oh and just a suggestion for an item to keep in your vehicle - which may sound weird/odd to most, but I've found it can be worthwhile: a spare wiper blade ...especially if you vehicle uses the same one on the driver and passenger side (otherwise - I'd just go with a driver-side spare). There's been more than once that I've had a wiper blade fail during a long drive while it's raining hard. Given how much of a pain it is to really need one and not immediately have one it's something I've added to list of items kept in my vehicle (especially since it'll get used sooner or later anyway).


cs1df2 41M
1463 posts
1/7/2017 6:12 am

oh and I'd say the appropriate response for any time someone is asking to get something in order for them to loan you something of theirs is: "You'll get {item being borrowed here} back. "

.... as often as I've loaned individuals/organizations things of mine and not gotten them back it'd be an improvement to hear that I will indeed get the item back (preferably in the same condition I lent it to them in... ) .....of course, that's also part of the reason why I don't loan things out much anymore either ....


brwnman2010 55M
9 posts
1/12/2017 9:50 am

He's gonna wear you down. He'll ask you at the right moment and BAM!! You're getting Fucked


nerdygirl721 34F  
1176 posts
1/12/2017 3:20 pm

    Quoting cs1df2:
    Since everyone else already answered on the question - I'm going to say I had a day like that while driving to see family before Christmas. Almost the entire drive from northern Alabama to central Minnesota was filled with WTF-moments -- it like there were a whole lot of people that were sitting in the driver's seat of their vehicle that were doing everything they could ...other than drive.

    Oh and just a suggestion for an item to keep in your vehicle - which may sound weird/odd to most, but I've found it can be worthwhile: a spare wiper blade ...especially if you vehicle uses the same one on the driver and passenger side (otherwise - I'd just go with a driver-side spare). There's been more than once that I've had a wiper blade fail during a long drive while it's raining hard. Given how much of a pain it is to really need one and not immediately have one it's something I've added to list of items kept in my vehicle (especially since it'll get used sooner or later anyway).
That's a good idea to keep a spare. Hopefully I could learn from Google how to put it on.


nerdygirl721 34F  
1176 posts
1/12/2017 3:22 pm

    Quoting brwnman2010:
    He's gonna wear you down. He'll ask you at the right moment and BAM!! You're getting Fucked
He has been asking for years and still hasn't gotten a taste, so he shouldn't get hopeful.


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