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I fear for the future of mankind!!!
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I fear for the future of mankind!!! Just a rant - I'm so frustrated that I need to vent! I know, I know, when a guy sees a pretty lady's profile his brain shuts down and his genitals start doing all his thinking for him (especially if she's got a big pair of tits!) but, honestly, the level of intelligence displayed by most of the men (and many women and couples) on this site makes me fear for the future of modern civilization! When my hubby and I had our couples profile and we decided to contact someone, we would read their profile carefully - ALL of it, and we would abide by any specific requests they made for anyone contacting them. And we would message them accordingly. Many people make few if any requests but a lot really do. For instance, "please be local", "you must be able to host" "we always meet with prospective friends for a bite to eat before playing", "please attach pics of yourself with your message", etc. Couples and single women are usually much more fussy than men, if you haven't noticed already! Well, since I published my profile, Id estimate that 70-80% of the men contacting me strike out miserably! And, I don't think I demand all that much in my guidelines! For instance, I write "Please be under 50," "I do not "hook up" with people at the drop of a hat, so if you're not willing to trade some messages with me for us to know each other, I'm not your girl." How about, " I've shown you enough of myself with high quality pics to let you determine if you'd be attracted to me and I demand the same from you. If your profile shows a "grey silhouette" and you don't attach a few clear pics of yourself, don't even bother. And, you've seen me completely naked, so, I expect the same from you!" And,, "Please be polite enough to send more than a one line message!" And, what do you think my average message sounds like? Here's a good example from a 68 year old man with a gray silhouette profile - "Hey - let's fuck tonight!" That's it. He batted a thousand! I get more one line messages from guys who have NO pics on their profile, or, just one little face pic, than anything else. How about the guy from Australia who messaged me - as would be expected, all he had on his profile was one little face pic and he looked like an emaciated librarian. He sent me a short message telling me how much he'd love to fuck me. Just for kicks, I responded and reminded him that if he wanted to live any further away from me, he'd have to leave the planet! He responded back by saying that he might be traveling to the US sometime in the next few years. Oh! Well, that changes everything - now you've REALLY got my interest. LOL! Honestly!!! What is a girl to do! I'm wearing out the tip of my index finger from hitting the "delete" button so often!!  |
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8/10/2015 3:00 am |
Great rant G. I agree with you, people should read and respect single and couples profiles and requests. We all should be adults on here, but i wonder some times haha.. Thanks for the great read. Take care and good luck! 
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1 post 8/12/2015 8:39 am |
Lol, glad I got to the end. Maybe I should look for some Australian girls on here just in case I ever go! Heh, what, I've always wanted to go to Australia =) Your rant is prob composed better than 90% of the mails people send on here, and you rant is just to blow off some steam and tell your story (which is prob all too common) while those mails are in hope of actual play time. I just can't figure out if that makes all us single guys look bad, or if all the desperate attempts help you notice the ones of us who can keep the lower head from doing the typing. Thanks for the laugh babe
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8/12/2015 8:43 am |
As a man, and not american, i suffer the consequences of so many stupid men populating this site. The education level is so low, women don't reply even if i read the whole profile, respect what the person is politely asking for, and write the best way i can! But please don't stop believing there are good people around the world! We may be sorrounded by idiots, but ocasionally good people will show up, just like a diamond in a pud of mud! Loved your text, totally identified with it! Hope to meet you in person so we can laugh about it! Xoxo
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You know there are many people on here that really are just poor at expressing what they really seek. Or they don't know who is reading their message. For example I (the guy) read and respond to 90% of the mail on here so, it's like I'm the filter for the both of us. My mistake with that is what my lady likes is not what I might like for her. She makes her own choices period and I will one day get it. lol It's so hard to find 4 people who all click so, we really have become more about each having our own friends and that has never been an issue as it's just Sex and nothing more (well maybe making some great friends)
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Ok.
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unfortunately that kind of behavior will continue to happen since the internet is a free access place and anyone can come here and post but don't feel alone, this also affects the rest of us who want to elaborate a conversation, it gets very difficult to have our messages read, as inboxes are flooded with all kind of messages (hundreds of 1 liners, and a few of good ones)
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So true and familiar in all respects. Most women and couples will recognize and share your sentiments, if they've been on this site long enough.
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There are a lot of fools that lack the knowledge to compose a simple sentence....Heaven forbid, should these fools compose a paragraph.... However, as I was admiring your steamy hot photos and videos, the blood raced to a certain part of my body and I got a bit light headed.....
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Nice profile and I would really like to be a good friend to you..
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Maybe the guy from Australia was so well hung it would reach. You never know. What you do know is that half the world is below average and anonymity brings them all out. Chuck
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Love it, just so true. love your pics and a man can dream.
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Excellent rant, Notice that there was no message from me, yes you are a mans dream woman - I have the grey profile pic, outside the gae limit, and even worse - I live further away from you than Australia. I just want to wish you ever pleasure and enjoyment that you deesrve xx
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OMG so true! Just today we got this message from a kid: "Looking for lady with oversized boobs and a lady that likes to give blowjobs." That was it. Really what kid is not looking for that. Despite the very clear instructions in our profile we are still overwhelmed by one liners. You are absolutely stunning babe and have better things to do with your index finger!
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9/4/2016 9:10 am |
My opinion is there are several main reasons to this, here are some first very obvious: 1. The web is over crowded with people thinking they can do anything hidden behind their screen. No bound, no rules, even politeness is too much for them 2. The global world population is very mainly made up of people not educated,, not only un-cultured, but also un-mannered. However, everyone can not be born in an aristocrat family. 3. Dating sites and especially flesh-pleasures oriented sites do not (usually) lure Nobel prizes. 4. A man cannot use his head when all its blood is gone elsewhere...  A good mix of these three reasons and we can point out the amount of the population concerned. I guess that is why people end up creating their own reduced network elsewhere, but without the visibility you can get on an Heated Affairs-site like... The shop window power to get new contacts or friends.
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1 post 8/17/2018 4:58 pm |
Your Such an Extraordinarily Attractive Woman . I am sorry if this Man that fall's outside your guide lines who has contacted your has annoyed you in anyway . Wishing Both You and Your Partner Every Happiness & Pleasure . . .
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1 post 11/18/2018 8:58 pm |
Hee hee.. didn't expect laughs on Heated Affairs - but this is a great writeup. When you're not into sex you should consider being a humorist.. ( seriously..  Hmm doesn't Dave Barry live too far away from you ? ( isn't he hung too..
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So intelligence is defined by"Having a nice pair and their yummy!" You have every right to be worried about the fate of our modern civilization! Using more than all the road!
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