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My expectations from this site: Blogging. Community of like minded people (love sex. Or the thought of sex. Or flirting. Or blogging about sex. Etc). Platonic friends. I hope to find a LTR. Or at the very least a well-trusted and abiding friendship with bonus of sex. You know: FWB. Emphasis on "friend". I expect decency. Usually I get it. I have an auto reply that responds to first messages from those I don't know explaining what my boundaries are. If they accept and message me again: I reply. Sometimes I reply even if they don't respond to the auto message. Though sometimes I'm not so great at keeping up with messages and I only get about 10 - 15 a day. I can't imagine the women that get 50+ a day. Anyhow... there's my answer.
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I totally agree with you. I am not one to send cock pictures women know what they look like...does this work to attract someone?
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I reply to respectable emails. Some women don't because of the nasty replies that we get back. I try to explain in my emails, why I think we aren't compatible. Some men accept it but most don't and have to make a rude comment back. I'm not looking for prince charming. I'm looking for a fwb....that is a responsible, reliable, man that will show up when he said he would. It is spelled out very plainly on my profile what I want and what I don't want. Many, many, men choose to ignore or not read the profile. They will send a one word or one sentence email. Hi. Or nice boobs doesn't cut it. You will not get a reply from me. As for a face pic. I usually send one out in the first or second email..I live in a small town and don't want my pic plastered all over the internet. I also want to make sure I don't know the man I'm talking to. 
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What a profound statement you made in your post. It's funny... I've wondered, pretty much, the exact same things you described. Thank you for making the observations and putting the words down in print for others to see, ponder and even comment on. As a guy, I always am interested in what the ladies think and the female perspective on things, so I find the ladies comments fascinating. No matter how hard the push for gender equality, men and women may be from the same species, but we are completely different creatures. We are wired differently (fortunately) and the ladies have different ways of looking at, and interpreting, things than we guys do. And you are right. I agree with you that I like a lady who tells it like it is. It is a real turn on for me, too... as along as she isn't cruel about it, initially. Thanks again for the poll and putting things in perspective. BTW... may I pay a compliment and say that your wife is a Knock Out. You two are a dynamic looking couple and look like you belong together.
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