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There is much to be said for letting yourself just go, whatever the hang-up might be. I guess for me, I really started to "just be me" 15 or so years ago when I was traveling to Little Rock on a recurring basis every other week for 2.5 years. The hotel I stayed at had a kick-ass, almost 70s-retro club, and in the course of going there, meeting, and being accepted, by lots of like minded people I decided to embrace my basic nature. When I got reassigned, I tried several other "dating sites" to speed up the process of meeting people, but rather quickly ended up here, which seems like a good of a match as I'd dare hope for. Getting Things Straightened Out Sex in Cars Time to Decorate, on HNW [post 3312759] My Private Blog - Tell Me ALL Your Secrets
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I think I grew out of it pretty early, given the right company. Being infinitely interested in sex and not the most attractive kid on the block led to a lot of self exploration and study of everything I could find having to do with sex. I realized early that like anything else, it just takes an interest and a willingness to learn. This was all good in theory... and then, I spyed a girl on the school bus reading "the Joy of Sex" and managed to work up the nerve to tell her I had already read it. We hit it off immediately. She was a junior in high school and really beautiful while I was a skinny, nerdy, freshman with red hair and freckles but we had a bond and managed to explore each other pretty thoroughly on the school bus for the next few months. I still think of her sometimes as we lost track when she moved away. She helped me to understand I wasn't as different as I thought I was and that my fascination with sex could be a plus with the right partner. My perv has been healthy ever since.......
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OK, I feel ignorant but you're gonna have to explain that Alabama reference!! I suppose my biggest pervy growth spurt occurred when I became single and checked out this site (about 13 years ago) and started to indulge my exhibitionist side by posting pictures, etc. Since then there've been various steps along the way to being more open about being a kinkster, too...I'm not so worried anymore about going to public events and hanging out with my weirdo tribe.
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Hmmm... I definitely look at men with an appraising eye now more than I did when I was younger. I guess it's because I've learned how to appreciate for appreciations sake. I was probably in my mid 30s, first learning about swinging, and realizing the sexual power women had. Perving was encouraged, both by the men and the women, personally there's something satisfying about other ladies perving your fella. Like it validates my good taste or something lol!!!!! But I'm definitely way over to the voyeur side of the scale so perving has always been a part of me, just less surreptitious now.
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For me as I got older i was open to a lot more, and for me I like men dressed as I like to slowly seduce them out of their clothes. I mean I love to see a naked men but I like it to be in parts as it's so much more of a turn on. As for their penis's for me its seen one you seen them all, as there are a lot more to men than just that.. I hope you enjoy a peaceful Sunday..
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The longer I've been here my interest in "perving" has lessened. It's partly because of the overkill of pic only posts and partly because there are few locals to check out with the potential to actually meet and touch. When the going gets weird, the weird turn pro. The only thing we have to fear is fear itself.
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While I may not have had an epiphany , I have noticed over the last 15 years or so that I'm much less concerned with what others think of my tastes and preferences. Also my tastes and preferences have evolved to include a bit of kink and the enjoyment of toys. I've also enjoyed various forms of porn, including the gay male variety. Unfortunately I can still be easily embarrassed by any and all of it, but it doesn't stop me from looking, enjoying or partaking. I'm sure that means "my give a damn's busted".
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Oh I'm with you...bring on the cocks for me to look at. Some of them are gorgeous. I have been to two different swinger's clubs on a few occasions with the hope of seeing many cocks but it didn't happen. The men don't walk around naked, except for my partner and the LMT, because I asked them to. I want to go to club that allows MM contact with the hope that I will see more cocks then. As long as no one is being hurt, enjoy getting your perv on!
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No epiphaneal (?) moment that I can think of, I just starting thinking more and more about my needs and wants and going after them. Although when I was younger I was not a prude, I was the one who didnt care about going skinny dipping etc.... I was certainly not as much about my pleasure as much as I was about pleasing.
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I don't know that my perving has changed much as I've aged but I have gotten much more comfortable being sexy and sexually aggressive when I see someone I want.
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Oh yes, I am pervier with age. I have told no one this so don’t tell now. But, I imagine some, not all, but some men naked. Co workers, bosses, just men in public. I know men do it, but aging women? Should I get help?
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what? look at cutes asses and nice boobies. No! No, no, no, no. Yes. Yes! YES! sorry what were we talking about? Today I watched a very cute older lady ride passed on her horse, bouncy bouncy. But us men have to be careful. It's a dangerous game if we're spotted and it's not appreciated.
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Uhmmmm, three sentences in, i sent you 47 dick pics.. Sorry.
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No, no, no.......this is a bridge porn site, what ye talkin aboot sex for???
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LMT is Licensed Massage Therapist.
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My "perving" didn't change with age - it changed due to the circumstances of being newly-single again, in my mid 40s. My 1st relationship after my ex was with a guy who wanted to explore the swinging scene, and needed a female partner. And, sorry to disappoint you - but at None of the swing clubs or events we went to were they any men walking around naked. We had a 3 year, long distance relationship, and split up in 2001. Since then, I have been without a partner, and have not really actively looked for 1, as my location "in the boonies" is NOT conducive to finding someone with similar interests. I get my share of seeing lots of naked men, during my summer camping vacations at my nudist resort - although I have to admit that the kind of nude male bodies I would "prefer" to gaze at and admire are among the minority. As for being around all those naked men, 24/7, I have rarely seen a cock (in its natural, resting state) that I could get excited about. On the other hand, I only really check out that part of a man's anatomy if I already know that he is single and might be "available". Check out my profile or and become a "watcher" of my blog FMAOPLS,to learn more about me, and for intelligent, lively, smartassy and fun discussion, with a little irreverence thrown in. "Like" or comment on my photos, and I promise I'll add more. Thanks.
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1/15/2019 3:55 am |
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