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Cyber to Real  

Angel_Beast69 63M
7 posts
4/25/2014 9:46 am
Cyber to Real


There is a lot of scepticism between fantasy vs real this blog is about an experience from Nat

Yes we met here on the site via the chat rooms. Our bond,kinks,desires and share of same writing style (yes there is a style lol ) Our friendship progressed as we supported each in our day to day. Big hurdles overcome we became more. The need to speak to each other daily despite timezones was like air. We were then blessed ang was given the opportunity to come here and that we are grateful.

A lot of preparation went into making my home welcome for him to arrive, from buying the mundane of toiletries to making sure an adapter for his electrical to work in Australia. As he was coming from the U.S (my Yank) as I fondly call him.

The day he arrived I spent the entire day "beautifying" and picking outfits, of course a number of changes, going as far as a matching colour top to what I knew he was wearing.

I'm sure I'm not the only who has a routine from applying scented lotion, making sure every tendril in it's place and reapplying fresh nail polish (ok maybe not the guys) and applying makeup. Sexy lingerie well everything..lol. Though I knew he just wanted to see me presentation was everything.

The whole day I was nervous, those thoughts of would we click truly as we did online? Would he find my mannerisms and quirks annoying? What if our temperaments clashed? Though deep down I knew it would be no different to what we showed online. I even went so far as to keep track of his flights online and worrying I would get his gate number wrong.

At the airport I found the gate no problem and sat down edgy waiting. As passengers got off the plane I wanted him to see me but being a small person I didn't want to get lost in the throng of people so I stood to one side yet in plain view for him to see him. Watching and waiting took forever as I looked out for his red top.

Memorized in my brain like a photograph were his features so no problem with that lol. Heart beat racing and jiggling on the spot I saw him and saw his perplex look as he tried to scan and see me. Dropping his bags he bundled me up into his arms strong lifting me off the ground as we kissed for the first time. Yes an Oh moment!
That first moment physical and not imagining were wordless. A far cry from where we began.

Our time together we felt like well the best way to describe it was comfortable, like we had known and been together years. We discovered so many small quirks, though mundane, were the same.

His stay here we enjoyed immensely and it was sad to see him go, I wished I could travel back with him. See his country meet his family and thus I will get there later in the year.

Don't rule out that this site, Look on the brighter side. If you don't try...you don't know. The attestment to us meeting is communication. There is never a "nevermind" It may take a few tries or many lol. So no the chat rooms isn't always fantasy, the people aren't always fake, I won't say there aren't any...lol.

To my Yanky man, I adore you and love you..

Angel_Beast69 63M
24 posts
4/25/2014 6:25 pm

I love you too.......more than words can express.......I feel the other half of me is missing.......sleep is difficult, don't want to eat alone, no desire to do anything or go anywhere alone.......I'm angry and now my family as well as you are feeling it......In all my years I have never felt so alone as I do here at home, like such a failure and let down to all, and sooooo insignificant as far as the world goes.........I need and want you........I love you my sweet Aussie/Thai princess..........


Lon_927 60F
13 posts
8/24/2016 10:52 am

Thank you for sharing, I loved reading this, I met the man of my dreams on Heated Affairs also, Yesterday was The Anniversary of the day we first met in person , its been 11 years ! I can't believe 11 years went by that quick.

Heated Affairs might not work out for everyone as well as it did for us !! I wasn't looking for any one person, I was lonely and the funny thing about that is my handle was ( Lonely927) when I joined Heated Affairs . But 2 years after joining I noticed him in a different way , I had known him enough to talk to him but all the sudden I realised I loved this man I didn't believe that a man like him existed , caring, understanding, loving and I came First in his life !!! This is something I never experienced, see my ex cheated on me with my so called friends So any trust I had was gone , until I met Blues . He has always treated me with respect , love , understanding, caring and he adored me , he still does to this day. I don't know how I got this lucky I just know how grateful I am to have him in my life .
Again Tyvm for sharing, You two are awesome I wish you nothing but the Best Life Has To Offer {=}


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