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Being reviled
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Being reviled "Size Queen" I've never heard the term used in other than a negative tone. It's hurtful. The consensus is that we're shallow for preferring larger sized peens, that it's the only thing we're interested in and that we're sluts always looking for bigger and bigger still. Shallow, single minded people always looking for bigger than the last are not size queens, they're trophy hunters. The distinction is important. Trophy hunters are the ones who will look at a large penis with excited avaricious eyes as they lick their lips in anticipation of how far apart they can spread their hands the next day as they tell their friends, "It was this big!". Whether they cum or not they'll have something to brag about. Size queens will look at a large penis with something akin to gratitude if not reverence because due to a combination of physiology and psychology a penis of a certain size is what it takes to deliver enough sensation to bring us ecstasy through penetrative sex. A size queen does not look solely for cock size, we are also concerned with compatibility on other fronts; attraction, intellect, humor, kindness. A personality that makes our lip curl in revulsion cannot be compensated for by a large dick. A size queen will not rush to brag to others about size. They'll just bask in the afterglow and silently (or to their partner) give thanks for the fulfilment. A size queen is not always looking for bigger than the last. Once a size queen has found that fulfilment with someone we adore we are significantly less likely to go looking elsewhere than non<b> size queens </font></b>because we know just what a rare gift it is to find the package of personality and peen that makes each of us happy. Please can we shed the impression that<b> size queens </font></b>are horrible, shallow people? I mean, really, shallow? If that were truly our problem we wouldn't need larger. |
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I think that in order to shed such an impression, we need to stop using terms like "Size Queen". Just because a woman prefers a larger penis, it doesn't automatically mean she disdains a smaller one or believes that the man attached to the smaller penis is 'less of a man'. The term 'Queen' when attached to anything except 'Elizabeth' conjures an image of a woman who finds anything not to her liking to be distasteful and of lesser quality. A mature woman would never deign to think less of a man because he was not well-endowed. She would simply state her preference for a larger cock and move on. That's what gets my goat: People who put a 'value' on a person by way of their physical attributes. Not to suggest that you have done so- you appear to have a very mature outlook on this subject and I applaud you for it. Rant over, lol. Bring on the coffee! When it comes to sex, I need a STRONG connection. Otherwise, the page just keeps buffering and takes FOREVER to load...
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9/14/2012 10:28 am |
Wow great blog on a topic that possibly makes some men insecure.I see nothing wrong with searching for what you most enjoy.The men here are no different some discriminate based on the womans breast size or if she has a few extra pounds on her frame.Keep looking for the size and the man that makes your body shake and bake.
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I may be wrong but I think "Size Queen" was originally attributed to gay men who would exclusively date men with above average endowment. The term migrated and started to be applied to anyone showing a preference for larger sizes. In some instances, it is even used to describe people who adhere to the general "bigger is better" philosophy. Regardless, what creates such judgments, condemnations or backlash towards "size queens" is resentment. Nobody likes to be excluded and as soon as someone makes their preference an exclusive requirement, someone will feel excluded and belittled and will start bashing their way back into self worth. What fascinates me is the distinct gender bias to any type of affirmation of preferences from women. As if only men can be selective in the selection of their mates. You rarely hear bashing of "boob men", "leg men" or "BBW lovers". If I were a woman on this site, my list of requirements would be far greater than most considering that there are far more men to chose from than women available. So pick, be selective, enjoy yourself and pay little attention to comments or judgments that are rooted in resentment.  And to my brethren I say; don't waste your time, you cannot guilt someone into liking you. Work with what you have and find the mate that will appreciate what you have to offer.
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9/14/2012 9:40 pm |
Hiya Ohyesitdoes I think everyone is entitled to look for what they want in a sex partner. If a wwoman like BIG then that's OK! If a guy likes BIG TITS then that's OK too! I’m very happy if you want to advertise your own blog with my readers so you can meet some others. My blog is the "MOST WATCHED BLOG" on Heated Affairs - so you could get some responses. Just leave a brief comment on my blog so they know who you are. I am sure that many of my readers will give your blog a look. Please drop by and visit me: oziealt to see my sexy pics, kinky stories, and perhaps tempt some visitors to your own blog. Cheers, BBG XXX
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You like what you like...right? Every woman is built a bit different. Her stuff is a little to the left or a bit further back or closer to the front than someone else you might have been with. I've been told all different things. I've heard "you're so much bigger", "I've had bigger", "that is the perfect size"... I don't really know if it's bigger or not. It's certainly not porn caliber. I think I rely on her bodies response to it to judge... It's kind of funny...some women have tiny hands and little tiny heads and bodies and it can appear gigantic in proportion... It's not huge...it works...I'm not self conscious... I found your post very informative. Thanks for writing it. Do me a favor...go look at one of my other posts and make a comment... please...
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