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Proposals  

Vickie_Jo 62F
199 posts
8/1/2016 11:49 am
Proposals

It must be either that time of year, perhaps there is something in the air, but I have received several marriage proposals this week. Usually it's maybe...maybe one a month. Hmmm!

Now I know some are just kidding around, or looking to break the ice so to speak, but the ones from this week weren't in the vein at all.

I also know with some it's just a fantasy thing, they want a woman that enjoys sex, one that is open about it, and... fucks like a bunny. Well....sometimes like a freaky bunny, but I digress. However, It's pretty obvious that they didn't read my profile.

Then there are those that are just lonely, but I don't think that this would be the greatest forum to try and choose a spouse, at least not just from the profiles you find on this site. While this is called Heated Affairs, it is mainly geared toward the sex and not so much about long term compatibility. Not to say you can't find that here, but that usually develops over time. Looking at some photos alone shouldn't be an inducement to a marriage proposal.

I'm never really sure how to respond to those. While I suppose it's flattering, I'm not looking to encourage them. I'm also not looking to mock them (tho one has to admit there is some humor in the situation). I won't just delete them either, that would be like saying they don't matter as people and I'm sure that whatever possessed them to make that offer has some deep rooted meaning to them.

However....if I was to ever find myself completely unattached again, while I wouldn't forgo getting dick, I think I would marry a woman. Just for a change



harderforu402 64M
27 posts
8/1/2016 12:22 pm

delicious!


scoupe42 60M

8/1/2016 12:39 pm

Damn, you sexy!


EeseRider 66M
187 posts
8/1/2016 12:52 pm

Who wouldn't want you you sexy Sybil


sphxdiver 74M
21063 posts
8/1/2016 1:47 pm

Well for sure, you know how it is on here.

Expect anything and everything !!!


s2ndegree 65M
9800 posts
8/1/2016 3:36 pm

Well that is a very comendable stand to take.Hopefully others will see the kindness in your reaction.While I am not one of these people it certainly doesn't mean a thank you
isn't in order.Sometimes when we get the shit kicked out of
us for just being a guy.Every little bit helps.Thank you!

Using more than all the road!


ReBar100 57M
4167 posts
8/2/2016 4:22 pm

Congratulations on all the offers. Naked outside makes us all happy that way.

Rebar100
Just the right amount of wrong. Occasional participant in various ongoing blogging projects. Rather be naked. The Blog: [REBAR100]


PyschoLoco 61M
1550 posts
8/4/2016 10:46 am

You truly believe that they were serious or legitimate proposals? I agree with you that someone should not propose to a pic or profile, sounds creepy or sad to me.

Standards are people too.....kinda


AvonEng357 71M
82 posts
10/27/2016 3:18 am

Congratulations on a higher than normal month.
I think they need a lesson in life and learn the difference between Love and LUST
Have a good day and keep smiling. Because you have a great and Sexy Smile


proteus_2a 58M
7979 posts
11/3/2016 1:25 am

Well, they can be something out of the ordinary !

Cheers - P


Hotnsexyman 52M
1 post
1/25/2017 8:00 am

It is great to see you back on Heated Affairs. I thoroughly enjoyed watching your pics and your candid and honest view of life... I for one look forward to finding someone like you in my life in the not so distant future.


Maastricht6211 44M
2 posts
5/1/2017 9:47 am

Sounds like you should move to a place where you can marry multiple people of different gender and have yourself a harem.


FunNSac 49M
117 posts
8/18/2017 11:43 am

Triad marriage would cover all bases then.


able202 63M
3108 posts
11/7/2017 8:01 pm

look at you! who wouldn't propose. I think a same sex relationship may be worth a try. Try everything till something works

Able202


allgud69xxx 50M
502 posts
8/4/2018 9:02 am

Hmm, does sound like a bit of an awkward situation. To put it mildly. Unfortunately, 50% is probably the best you can hope for in not hurting them to some degree, no matter what approach you take to letting them down.

On the flip side, without trying to be super-critical, it's not exactly fair for them to put you into that kind of position, either. It might take a certain logical leap, that I couldn't arrive at, to propose something like marriage, from pretty-much any level of interaction on a website. Met in person, yada, yada, yada - maybe?

One a month? Jeez, you really are popular!

-- allgud69xxx

Yeah ... that's right ... I went there ..
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81lizard 57M/55F
118 posts
2/3/2019 3:00 pm

Generally a hot pic is a strong reaction to a hot pic. It moved a man or woman to say.. I could life with that for the rest of my life. A strong woman like you is a fun friend to have. Keep up the good work..


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