Reset Password
If you've forgotten your password, you can enter your email address below. An email will then be sent with a link to set up a new password.
Cancel
Reset Link Sent
If the email is registered with our site, you will receive an email with instructions to reset your password. Password reset link sent to:
Check your email and enter the confirmation code:
Don't see the email?
  • Resend Confirmation Link
  • Start Over
Close
If you have any questions, please contact Customer Service
Forgot password?
Blogs > Teyjj > Something Else

It's That Time (Of The Month)  

Teyjj 56M
2573 posts
11/20/2019 9:54 am

Last Read:
9/20/2020 12:21 pm
It's That Time (Of The Month)
I wonder if I'm being immature, unfairly squeamish, or just normal?

When my wife is experiencing/having her period there are little signs that let know that "there will be no playing around in the bedroom tonight." There isn't usually a discussion. I'm smart enough that I don't always miss those signs.

My FWB, on the other hand, seems to think that I have to have an explanation, and we should have a discussion when each month comes around.

Today we were supposed to get together and she texted for me to give her a call. So I did.

She said, "I'm not going to make it today."
I responded, "Okay. No Problem."
"You know why, right?"
"You can't make it. That's good enough for me. At least you notified me before I left home, so I'm good," I replied.
"Well, I'm seeing my period," she said, "so I didn't think I should come."
"Okay." I said.

;!; ;!; ;!;

We've been doing this for quite a while now so I figure she would realize I never react negatively if we can't get together because its that time of the month. She has never been given a reason to see me as unreasonable or not understanding. So I have difficulty understanding why she always have to explain her period to me.

I'm always tempted to ask if she does the same with her husband but I think that would be intrusive.

Good news is, I get a break at home and on the road at the same time each month.
Bad news is I seem to have serious desires about that time also.
One part of my personality says I should be happy for the break (rejuvenate), another part says to import a substitute. I think that might be the part of me that has forgotten its age!



BBW56Sally 52F

11/22/2019 5:29 pm

 LOL! I think the need to share is to let you know there is not other reason or person for cancelling. For you this is an Affair and she know it to is an affair. But she is an lady and it is natural to develop feeling s for the man of the affair even it there is no attachment.... Is just her way of letting you know she is faithful to you...
kisses,
Sally


Become a member to create a blog