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Endless Boring IM and E-mails
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Endless Boring IM and E-mails Why is it that I seem to be the one who keeps conversations going when chatting on IM and e-mails? I am finding that lately I am getting only one or two word messages and responses. As I begin to talk about family, or work, or just about anything in general I can't get guys to open up. I have no problem keeping a conversation going and can always find something good to talk about. So when I ask an opinion or ask a general question I usually get one or two word responses. That will only hold my interest for so long. Endless e-mail and IM's like that are so boring to me. I prefer intellectual conversation even if it is about what you cooked or had for dinner and whether you liked it or not. When I ask about that I only get "chicken" or "spaghetti." If I say "wow today was sure cold...how about where you live?" I will get "pretty cold." Then nothing...I have to keep it going. Sometimes after a few minutes of this I will say "Okay, I need to get going, thanks for the chat and goodnight." They will say "OK 'night." Then contact me the next time with the one word "hi" and it starts all over.....sometimes I will block them if it continues. I get so tired of being the one to keep the topics going. Wonder why a lot of guys are like this? Could it be they are shy or not confident about chatting? {=} {=} KCClaire0923 |
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Love to have interesting conversations even if it is about the weather or food! LOL {=}
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That's pretty much what I get as well, but I don't keep it going. I don't even respond to initial one- or two-word greetings. Besides, on IM it seems most men want to engage in cyber sex, which I don't do.
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By the way, the temperature by me wouldn't be so bad if it wasn't for the gale-force winds 
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Hi girls, the thing is that some people are interested only in sex chat, no others and if you start chatting different arguments they just quit. Of course I like sex chatting, but you have to interact with other as well and a good conversation is a good conversation no matter the argument. besitos
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12/15/2016 10:00 am |
Sometimes it is tough to get others to open up. Also, it helps weed out the fakes.
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FWIW, IMO, getting the nuances of a person via IM or email is not the best medium for a detailed conversation. Once there is some sort of connection or interest in really talking I go to voice. When the going gets weird, the weird turn pro. The only thing we have to fear is fear itself.
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Granted... I don't chat all that much here. But I've yet to meet a man in chat who wants anything more than you to be a masturbatory aid. The IM doesn't seem to be for "getting to know you," it's more for "getting me off while you carry the conversation." 
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I quit using this IM a long time ago!!! (Virtual Symposium Group) use Virtual Symposium Group
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well if you were to ask me what I had for dinner and this week I did have chicken and spaghetti with meat balls tonight the rest of the chicken. yes small talk is cheep and one way chat are boring. all men are not horn dogs all the times. I just started here and I look at a name or what you have for a start like "i like to be naughty" or "i'm here to look" that how I start it off. if you don't want to talk just say so. I have talked to a few ladies for awhile, we said our good night. every thing seem ok the next or 2 days later I say hi and nothing. it was small talk no sex talk at the time. never even came up. guess while we talked they just check out my profile and didn't like what they saw. but didn't know what to say so now they say nothing. fine by me, move on life to short. by the way it 11degrees the wind is blowing 20 mph baby it's cold out side. . j the same goes on with broadcast and blogs it's up to the person your watching weather they want to have sex or talk, just respect what they want. just my thought. have a nice day
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That is sad to hear. People these days seem to want short "texts" or quick lingo. Conversations will be a lost art very soon I am afraid. I love to engage in lengthy conversations. How else are to learn something about someone? But sadly, it is not just males that do it, I have had females do the same thing. But, it is primarily males, looking for mental images to masterbate too. Guess porn doesn't do it for them any more.
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"Could it be they are shy or not confident about chatting?" Probably not. They are probably just horned up and not interested in "small talk". This is after all a sex site. Guys and girls. Two different species living on the same planet.
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One thing I have noticed is there a some men who come on the site on the hunt. They are looking to get off ASAP. While some women on the other hand approach the site a bit differently. Some are not looking to get off immediately but the create pathways which will lead to that eventually. Kind like some people get hungry they run into a restaurant or fast food; while others go to the store get groceries and go home and make a meal. Different approaches to ultimately the same goal. This is a Copy of My Profile Want to know even more about me? Read my Introduction Post. Feel free to drop me a line here: Give me All the Messages. Don't worry it is private! Check out all my rambles here, BlackRayne74!!   Desire becomes surrender, surrender becomes power. -Joker
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lol thats typical..and i tell you, its not just men..i like to get to know people and actually have a convo..but then as u said one worders follow soon even when they are then one texting me first lol and i always end up writing something like "it was my genuine pleasure almost talking to you"... guess most here cant appreciate it. oh well life has worse thing to deal with..them can move on to their next target..aint that desperate to chase whatever moves out there lol
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Lets face it men are here for sex talk or at least that's the way I see it. However on my cam its seems many of them enjoy just having normal every day conversations. Perhaps it's just the emails from men your getting so sorry hun I hope you find some men who will like to chat with you about everything other than just sex.. Seduce the mind and see what a wonderful adventure the body will take you on.. 
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true very true
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I have the same problem, when I talk to someone they want cock pics or face immediately or they won't talk, when i refused to give either, they just won't bother talking. I'm not going to give out such pics that quickly, I have too much to lose. You have to convince me you're real and interesting before I give them out. Aut viam inveniam aut faciam Tips for Guys to Meet Women  Things i miss most about relationships
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