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First Meet In Person
First Meet In Person When you have become acquainted with someone online, whether it be for any length of time, are you at all nervous on how or what you will do and say when you finally do meet him or her in person? I actually am very comfortable when meeting someone new, and if I see him waiting when I drive up, i usually smile and wave until I get parked. Then when I get out of the car and approach him, I never shake hands. I am very comfortable greeting with a hug and a hello. Sometimes I have returned a kiss on the cheek. That usually breaks the ice. Many times I have seen and felt the relief on a man's face after doing that. I can understand how difficult it is for some people to meet blindly; after all like Forrest Gump says, "Life is like a box of chocolates. You never know what you are gonna get." But I do try and make everyone I meet feel comfortable even when I know it won't be going anywhere due to no chemistry. I can always tell with the first 5 minutes whether or not I will be seeing this new person a second time or more. There is one that I met in person after corresponding for about 3 months. He was standing against his car, arms folded, and when I drove up (he knew what color and kind of car I drive) I waved and smiled. He broke into a huge smile, and when I got out of the car, he clutched his chest with both hands. When I hugged him, he whispered to me "you are more stunning in person that I ever imagined." LOLOL We still make time to see each other when our schedules permit. We would like more from our relationship but there are barriers; so we make each moment count when we do find that special time. {=} {=} KCClaire0923 |
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I think everyone is at least a little bit nervous on a first meet. I hopefully get any woman I am going to meet as comfortable with me as possible via our phone conversations. Then I just go with the flow when we do meet. When the going gets weird, the weird turn pro. The only thing we have to fear is fear itself.
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