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What Are Men Really Looking For?
What Are Men Really Looking For? We all know what this site is all about.....however, I have seen recent blogs written about relationships forming and even an occasional marriage out of those who have met here. The number of married/attached men on this site is astronomical and it is understandable. They are not happy at home for one reason or another. She hates sex and that stopped a long time ago; she is a raving bitch and hard to live with; he is bored with her and their vanilla sex life. So, okay I get that. But it doesn't mean us single gals have to settle for that. We need also him to be available when we need him or want him - NOT on his schedule all the time. It's hurtful see him looking at his watch all the time. So to those of you men on here who are SINGLE, real, honest and not looking for just casual sex once in awhile but really would like to find someone close in distance that you can develop a friendship with, go places and do things also OUTSIDE the bedroom.....what would she look like not only physically but inside as well? Her qualities, her attitude, life outlook and all of that? Yes men are visual creatures and must have chemistry to go along with everything else. So I will ask this question to you single men. Would you describe in just a few words what your ideal woman would look and BE like? Please be honest, as I am posing this blog topic for not only myself, but for a few women friends on here who are wondering the same thing. Those of us who are single, normal, decent, clean, honest, caring, sexy and easy to get along with. Then maybe we can figure it all out. We know are sitting on a goldmine, but there must be men out there who look deeper than that. Especially in our baby boomer age group. Thanks guys in advance for your feedback and honest replies. {=} {=} KCClaire0923 |
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Open minded without presumptuous assumptions making her decisions for her.Willing to have at least a conversation. Using more than all the road!
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I think it's great that this site provides a way for people living alternate lifestyles to be open and honest and meet their counterpart, but I think "normal" people don't display their true selves on this site which makes it a danger. Women should not involve themselves emotionally with men who are inauthentic.
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I enjoy the company of fit, athletic women. I value the ability to have conversation on a wide variety of topics. I also appreciate women who have a range of interests and who like to engage in a wide range of activities. These traits would be important if I was looking to have a friendship involving going places and doing things.
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Being male and “SINGLE, real, honest and not looking for just casual sex once in awhile” and a boomer – here goes. Finding someone “close in distance” isn’t easy for me since I live in a small town where there are few female members in the towns that are within 50 miles. I would prefer a “regular” situation or “dating” if you prefer that term, I am also not against getting into a LTR. What would she look like physically . . . I’m fairly open really, most people here who know me know I love bOObs but they don’t have to be huge like I just depicted, hell they can be small as long as I get to enjoy them along with her. No specific hair color etc, etc. To quote an ole 60s song “Not too skinny, she's not too fat She's a real humdinger and I like it like that”. And no . . . I won’t “hump anything”. Yes there has to be good chemistry; relationships (of any kind) don’t work well without it. Straight from my profile. “I’m not looking for just anyone. No one is perfect, but QUALITY is important, the right quantity will come from there. For me, you must be honest, smart, affectionate, sensual, able to communicate, are considerate and non-judgmental, and easygoing. No games, lies and no d or d please. There is a song that comes close to describing who I am looking for - “I've been searching for the daughter of the devil himself, I've been searching for an angel in white. I've been waiting for a woman who's a little of both”. When the going gets weird, the weird turn pro. The only thing we have to fear is fear itself.
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Rascal, I love reading your blogs and responses....it's so nice to see someone write in an intelligent way responding as requested. Both songs you mentioned are ones I have listened to for years and the words I, like you, know by heart along with the group/artist. Mitch Ryder and the Detroit Wheels did Devil with the Blue Dress on "Not too skinny and not too fat, she's a real humdinger and I like it like that" is such a good song and fun to dance to. The other one, of course is an Eagles tune which we all love that music. Both lyrics you said describe what you want physically/emotionally plus you added more....and like myself QUALITY is so important. Maybe because of the kind of site this is we can't find it! Oh well, one day at a time I guess and like my Aunt used to tell me, "sometimes you have to get through the crumbs to get to the real loaf." LOL So thank you again for your honesty, and I can see that it must be difficult for you to meet people since you are way out in the Arizona boonies! (But I bet it is beautiful where you live, no smog or freeway congestion like here). Anyway, happy holidays and keep those good blogs and responses coming! KCClaire0923
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Just a fairly good looking woman, that can carry a conversation, does like to things outside the house, and isn't a money-grubber !!
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Beautifully said KtMnDu, and yes it helps. I guess there are men on this site looking for more than just the sexual side of a relationship as you expressed so eloquently. Sex is extremely important as we know but it is how we express that desire along with all the other important qualities that matter. Thank you for responding in such a beautiful way and happy holidays to you! {=} {=} KCClaire0923
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