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Not On My Blog  

sexyldy1000 68F  
10138 posts
8/14/2020 7:31 pm
Not On My Blog



The site states blogs are a simple way t.o. create your own regularly updated homepage. They're a way t.o. find out more about other members and tell people more about yourself and your real life experiences.

I view my blog as My space t.o. post what I want, when I want. Visitors are welcomed and encouraged t.o. view, comment, express an opinion, spark a conversation or if they aren't interested, that's ok and keep walking by.



I don't care Who you are. If we are "friends" or "watchers" of one another's blogs or have never encountered each other previously. You will All be treated the same.

What others do with their blogs is their choice. Recent comments and actions by others have made it necessary for m.e. t.o. clearly state the following:
I will Not condone my blog being used by other members t.o. mistreat, harass or demean one another. My blog is not a playground for people t.o. air their squabbles with each other. I will Not hesitate t.o. report those who cannot comply.

Remember:
Actions have consequences.
Spoken words cannot be un-heard.
Written words cannot be un-seen.




sexyldy1000 68F  
9607 posts
8/14/2020 7:46 pm

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dmftcol24 51M

8/14/2020 8:16 pm

Well said!!


sexyldy1000 68F  
9607 posts
8/14/2020 9:01 pm

Thanks for stopping by and taking a peek 😊.


Takeachance48262 41M

8/14/2020 9:36 pm

Very cool


lusty47male1 66M
454 posts
8/14/2020 10:48 pm

I like your version of the three chimps,four chimps.


LadiesR2B1rst 60M  
2735 posts
8/14/2020 11:18 pm

It would be a much better world if we would all consider using these words to live by ! There is already way too many negative people out there. One act of kindness can truly make someone's Day ! Thank You for your blog !!


Paulxx001 67M
22642 posts
8/14/2020 11:49 pm

Your place. Your rules.
I love rules and always follow them.
My middle name is Rules. 🍷🍷😎❗😘


my1ipsonyours 63M
92 posts
8/15/2020 4:45 am

Say no to drama


mc_justmc 63M

8/15/2020 5:07 am

I've seen a bit of that on my blog. Sometimes stepping into the middle of it is like stepping in front of a speeding bus. I must have missed it here, but I bet I can guess the participants.


meetmeonthetrail 67M

8/15/2020 5:39 am

Well said Sexyldy..They need to stop acting like School Kids..


redrockrascal 65M
23580 posts
8/15/2020 6:30 am

I have found the delete button to be and effective tool.

When the going gets weird, the weird turn pro.

The only thing we have to fear is fear itself.


Avonsenior 70M
1458 posts
8/15/2020 8:23 am

Good Luck
I am glad I am retired because there were some people that felt they had to verbally abuse others and they did not know how to react when someone could quietly let them have it.
I did get a smile on my face when I was told one person had been released after talking about another executive
Stay calm and let the rain run off your back


MrRareity 64M  
4589 posts
8/15/2020 8:46 am

I couldn't agree with you more. It is your blog and you and only you have the right to say what you'll allow and won't. Well said!!

We have two lives, and the second begins when we realise we have only one - Confucious


Tmptrzz 61F  
107039 posts
8/15/2020 11:24 am

Well said hun, I totally agree!!! I hope you have a wonderful weekend..

Seduce the mind and see what a wonderful adventure the body will take you on..


pocogato12 71F  
37235 posts
8/16/2020 6:37 am

I am in total agreement with you. I have a delete, block, report button as part of my right index finger

(Virtual Symposium Group) use Virtual Symposium Group


sexyldy1000 68F  
9607 posts
8/16/2020 7:35 am

    Quoting  :

Thanks for stopping by and sharing your perspective.


sexyldy1000 68F  
9607 posts
8/16/2020 7:36 am

    Quoting lusty47male1:
    I like your version of the three chimps,four chimps.
Thanks! I found it awhile ago and think it should be a guideline for all on here.


sexyldy1000 68F  
9607 posts
8/16/2020 7:37 am

    Quoting LadiesR2B1rst:
    It would be a much better world if we would all consider using these words to live by ! There is already way too many negative people out there. One act of kindness can truly make someone's Day ! Thank You for your blog !!
Thank you for stopping by and sharing your perspective.


sexyldy1000 68F  
9607 posts
8/16/2020 7:38 am

    Quoting Paulxx001:
    Your place. Your rules.
    I love rules and always follow them.
    My middle name is Rules. 🍷🍷😎❗😘
Yes. My space to fill as I want to.


sexyldy1000 68F  
9607 posts
8/16/2020 7:39 am

As someone I know likes to say, "Drama was a class in high school".


sexyldy1000 68F  
9607 posts
8/16/2020 7:43 am

    Quoting mc_justmc:
    I've seen a bit of that on my blog. Sometimes stepping into the middle of it is like stepping in front of a speeding bus. I must have missed it here, but I bet I can guess the participants.
It was bad enough that it occurred. What make it worse, was when they refused my specific request to STOP .


sexyldy1000 68F  
9607 posts
8/16/2020 7:44 am

    Quoting meetmeonthetrail:
    Well said Sexyldy..They need to stop acting like School Kids..
Agreed! Thanks for stopping by .


sexyldy1000 68F  
9607 posts
8/16/2020 7:47 am

    Quoting redrockrascal:
    I have found the delete button to be and effective tool.
It shouldn't be necessary. It is a bit of a dilemma....delete so it's as if it never happened, or leave it so others can see and draw their own conclusions.


sexyldy1000 68F  
9607 posts
8/16/2020 7:57 am

    Quoting Avonsenior:
    Good Luck
    I am glad I am retired because there were some people that felt they had to verbally abuse others and they did not know how to react when someone could quietly let them have it.
    I did get a smile on my face when I was told one person had been released after talking about another executive
    Stay calm and let the rain run off your back
Your example reminds me of 'Be careful how you treat people on your way up. You will see those same people pass you on your way down".


sexyldy1000 68F  
9607 posts
8/16/2020 7:58 am

    Quoting MrRareity:
    I couldn't agree with you more. It is your blog and you and only you have the right to say what you'll allow and won't. Well said!!
I felt it was overdue. Thanks for support.


sexyldy1000 68F  
9607 posts
8/16/2020 7:59 am

    Quoting Tmptrzz:
    Well said hun, I totally agree!!! I hope you have a wonderful weekend..
I know you understand. I may have pissed off a few people, but I felt it needed to be said. Be careful and be safe!


sexyldy1000 68F  
9607 posts
8/16/2020 10:33 am

    Quoting pocogato12:
    I am in total agreement with you. I have a delete, block, report button as part of my right index finger
I knew you would understand. It shouldn’t be necessary to monitor other people’s behaviour.


trixietrixster 56F  
3125 posts
8/16/2020 6:46 pm

Well, iggy has bout 1500 douchebags to keep him company on my end! This should be in a manual for online behavior - excellently written! It's normal that people have differences. It's the way you handle them that can become as issue. We each have a page for a reason, so one can express themselves in their own way. If someone doesn't like it, just move the fuck along. If they don't like what a person may have posted, just move the fuck along. Like you, I won't allow disrespect to myself or others. Sad that you are dealing with such asinine behavior ... *huggles*

In Luv, Lite, Laffter ...


proteus_2a 58M
7979 posts
8/17/2020 2:34 am

Simple etiquette my lady ...

Cheers - P


sexyldy1000 68F  
9607 posts
8/17/2020 8:46 am

    Quoting trixietrixster:
    Well, iggy has bout 1500 douchebags to keep him company on my end! This should be in a manual for online behavior - excellently written! It's normal that people have differences. It's the way you handle them that can become as issue. We each have a page for a reason, so one can express themselves in their own way. If someone doesn't like it, just move the fuck along. If they don't like what a person may have posted, just move the fuck along. Like you, I won't allow disrespect to myself or others. Sad that you are dealing with such asinine behavior ... *huggles*
Thank you. Things flowed easily as they were spoken from the heart. It was starting to form a pattern which despite previous requests to stop, was ignored. Too much of it has been going on around the site. I can only monitor and attempt to quell the negativity that happens on my own space. **Hugs** to you also.


sexyldy1000 68F  
9607 posts
8/17/2020 8:48 am

    Quoting proteus_2a:
    Simple etiquette my lady ...

    Cheers - P
You would think so but some don't seem to understand that. If I have ticked off people, then so be it. I will continue to "my thing"


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