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Blogs > im_soaking_wet > Sessions with Soaking

I Despise Dating.  

im_soaking_wet 40F
4262 posts
5/31/2014 2:47 pm
I Despise Dating.
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rokhrd2002 48M
103 posts
5/31/2014 2:51 pm

 Hi date hater ,

How is your weekend going? Did you go on a date recently?


im_soaking_wet replies on 5/31/2014 10:13 pm:
Ya... something like that. Just a pet peeve. Im not into games whatsoever

DoctorBooty 43M  
6426 posts
5/31/2014 3:06 pm

 lol, you and I would get along well. I hate dating for the same reason.

Can I call the same night? Should I text her? What if I come across as clingy or smothering? Does she normally text this much? Maybe I should stop texting her back or it'll be a habit with us. Why didn't she text back, maybe shes not interested in me at all?

I hate that shit. I hate that people are putting up a front because they don't want you to know their insecurities so quickly.

While there are times when I know I just need to date and get out, and not jump right into something, its the drama and games that goes with it that makes me stay at home and sulk instead. I'm glad I learned how so I wouldn't be such a wanker.

The best "dates" I've ever had were when I basically stayed with someone for 7-8 hours, and we got past the introductory shit and really got to know each other.


im_soaking_wet replies on 5/31/2014 10:16 pm:
Totally eh? Its such bullshit. Ughhh

khuXBFXM8u 62M
10296 posts
5/31/2014 4:04 pm

 I'm so with you on this one... have the gonad to be forthright with your feelings.
Find pleasure in giving pleasure


im_soaking_wet replies on 5/31/2014 10:17 pm:
Exactly

Mister_Blue66 41M
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382 posts
6/1/2014 9:27 am

 I'm not that good at dating either. I've been told it is hard to tell if I'm interested by a couple of different women. Shouldn't be that hard, if I am not looking to bail at the earliest opportunity then I am interested! As such though I've had to modify my approach which may make me seem over eager It needs tweaking!


im_soaking_wet replies on 6/1/2014 4:35 pm:
If chicks are telling you that they cant tell and you've heard that more than once about yourself, make a point of telling her your interested. Simple shit Blue.... "Hey, btw I enjoyed our coffee together. If you'd like to get together again, i'd like that." Easy peasy man...

Mister_Blue66 41M
Ask me for a photo
382 posts
6/2/2014 9:27 am

 I do do that. Most of the time That is the tweaking. I try to sound nonchalant, but I think sometimes it comes across as weird or desperate. Maybe if I added a monkey...


72SCOUT72 50M  
115 posts
6/28/2014 10:08 am

 I hear you! It's so much harder than it needs to be!


hunterpt 62M
13507 posts
11/17/2015 2:41 am

 I´m also no good in dating, understand what you feel. Kisses


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