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I have to second what Bonerdonor said. Make sure you grieve your mother properly. At the same time however, a strong bond and connection can be made through something like that, and to automatically dismiss it might be a big mistake. ...
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I'm going to be the voice speaking from your other shoulder... that was totally the wrong situation to have popped the date question. If he'd asked for your number or email to call in a week, that would have been more appropriate for the circumstances.
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5/13/2014 2:01 pm |
I think that was a reasonable response on your part - not a flat-out no, but "give me some time." Especially since your mother had just passed away. Still, sometimes something bad can bring two good people together. You never know...
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Well, not the place or the time I'd have asked any girl out. Seems improper to me, like he's taking advantage of the situation, I don't know. I wouldn't have told a girl off if she asked me out at my mother's funeral, but I too would not have given an answer. Then again I could see it from his side, he likes you, he has no reason to see you ever again, its not like you'll walk in to his office. So he tried, and if he's a nice guy, there probably wasn't a strong ulterior motive to take advantage of the situation. He just picked the wrong time. Would I go out with my mother's doctor in this situation? Probably not, unless I already had a strong attraction beforehand. He'll always make you think of her or her illness, which may be good or bad for you. {=} Aut viam inveniam aut faciam Tips for Guys to Meet Women Things i miss most about relationships
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Just an idea from an outsider, go out and see how you connect. Perhaps it will turn into a friendship or more and in 20 years you can look back and realize that it was a sign and with one large loss in your life, another connection was made.
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I'm going to play the devil's advocate here. I'm sure you are a great catch. But, that being said, being a professional working in the medical field, I have to object to this doctor's ethics. Have I been attracted to my patients or relatives of my patients? Yes, of course! Being in a position of authority and trust, I hold myself to a high ethical standard that I will not compromise my license for. This doctor took advantage of your vulnerability. In some jurisdictions, this type of behavior can be reportable and jeopardize licenses. My advice? Not worth it.
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To put it bluntly, yes you are being fucking stupid! There is a old saying... when a door closes a window opens That applies here. If you have some attraction to this man, then you have some attraction to this man, what more do you need. Find pleasure in giving pleasure
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Soaking when donna was ill with cancer a nurse became very good friends with both of us and there was a attraction ,without me knowing donna asked her to keep in touch with me ,we went for coffee many times but I could not get passed how we met , we are still good friends but I could not take things further not sure if it was to soon or what . your situation is different but the mind does associate things in weird ways . hope all is good with you Kerry
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Depends how you feel about it, it´s your call. Kisses
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