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I'd Like to Check My Baggage Please
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people often interchange baggage and history. history you learn from, baggage weighs you down. if you can tell the difference you are off to the races.
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people often interchange baggage and history. history you learn from, baggage weighs you down. if you can tell the difference you are off to the races.
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No, I have preconceived notions of what i want and expect in a relationship based on what I've gotten or not gotten in previous ones. I don't hold anger against many previous girlfriends that current girlfriends have to deal with, just doubts about whether someone cares about me through thick & thin. Aut viam inveniam aut faciam Tips for Guys to Meet Women Things i miss most about relationships
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If you figure out a foolproof method let me know! Most of the time I am fairly decent at not letting past experiences affect me. Sometimes though, if a situation is too similar to a past one I'll get a bit weirded out. Typically I try keep the weirdness to myself until I can sort it out, make myself sound not nuts
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No, I have preconceived notions of what i want and expect in a relationship based on what I've gotten or not gotten in previous ones. I don't hold anger against many previous girlfriends that current girlfriends have to deal with, just doubts about whether someone cares about me through thick & thin.
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If you figure out a foolproof method let me know! Most of the time I am fairly decent at not letting past experiences affect me. Sometimes though, if a situation is too similar to a past one I'll get a bit weirded out. Typically I try keep the weirdness to myself until I can sort it out, make myself sound not nuts
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Isn't that the truth! lol
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It comes down to inherent human nature. I agree.
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Do the doubts play a factor tho? They must. Its moreso myself and my inability to open up to someone easily that is the problem than anything they are doing. Aut viam inveniam aut faciam Tips for Guys to Meet Women Things i miss most about relationships
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I think it's difficult to make the distinction between what going to become baggage that holds you back, and simply hard life experience. There's a lot of overlap, the reason being that a lot of it has to do with perspective on the events. It's possible to see things in any way we choose. Not taking much of it into future relationships is a simple matter: Eliminate hard expectations and go with the flow, freely learning more about yourself, the other person and allowing change to happen naturally. Simple - but not easy and it seems that the vast majority of people will never accomplish that. I think it's probably more sane and practical to try hard to make sure expectations are reasonable and just travel light. All are welcome to an audience with The Magnificent One oldirtybacchus
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In my head they do, and I tend to analyze what people say and determine what they really mean. Its moreso myself and my inability to open up to someone easily that is the problem than anything they are doing.
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I think it's difficult to make the distinction between what going to become baggage that holds you back, and simply hard life experience. There's a lot of overlap, the reason being that a lot of it has to do with perspective on the events. It's possible to see things in any way we choose. Not taking much of it into future relationships is a simple matter: Eliminate hard expectations and go with the flow, freely learning more about yourself, the other person and allowing change to happen naturally. Simple - but not easy and it seems that the vast majority of people will never accomplish that. I think it's probably more sane and practical to try hard to make sure expectations are reasonable and just travel light.
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some people caries a lot o baggage, i´m of the least baggage possible. Kisses
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