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If I were you...I would look out for myself first Your terminally ill do u really need more stress on top of that on whether u should ask him or not? Its obvious hes the carrier .... Take care of yourself FIRST AND FOREMOST... Just my opinion... Visit my [blogonelastchan00] to enter my[post4439715]
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7/26/2020 4:59 pm |
First and foremost you need to get tested, I know you don't want to lose that FWB but your health is waaay more important. Second, ASK. HIM. He might be upset. And that's fine. He can stay mad, but if you keep having outbreaks like this...no. A FWB relationship is suppose to be open, especially when it comes to communication. You two need to have this talk, no matter what fears you may have. You can't get answers if you don't ask. After you find out your test result, maybe you should consider finding another FWB. I know finding a good one is hard (I'm still trying to find one lol), but you got this. I hope everything gets better for you both. Much love. <3
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Tell him that you got sick and and what your symptoms are. Then ask him to get tested because you are concerned about exposing him. You should get tested also. He may admit that he has it. If you come back positive, he may admit to you that he also has it then. If you don't accuse him it will give him the opportunity to come clean in a couple places. If you have it then it is too late to worry and your only concern is his honesty.
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oh, my Gosh! i'm so sorry to hear that. i really am. my bestie was engaged and believe it or not she got herpes from her then fiancé; he was cheating. and, yes, she did confront him about it. but, as for you, if you have a compromised immune system, that's really no bueno. and if you consider your health important enough, and it sounds like it is, you should ask your friend if he's experiencing anything similar. or at the very least get yourself a blood test and get checked out first and then share what you got esp. if he is the only one you've been intimate with.
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I would have a talk with him. Let him know how you truly feel about your relationship and explain that in no way you are accusing him of anything. Just let him know what happens every time you get together. Also I am sorry you are going through kidney failure. My mother is in Stage 4 and does not want to go on Dialysis. I know it's hard on you and your family. Prayers are with you. The Light is shinning and she is lonely and waiting in the darkness. 
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he gave you herpes and didnt tell you
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7/26/2020 6:58 pm |
you need to get tested! you have enough on your plate. don't worry about invading his privacy, if you test positive someone from infectious disease department will contact him. but just my two cents. should you decide to talk to him, you are not invading his privacy. you are possibly preventing him from infecting others . there is a world of difference between insanity and stupidity
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7/26/2020 7:45 pm |
Ok then
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oral herpes is endemic , nearly 100% of humans have it . it shows up when immunity is weak or stress is high ,so called cold sores , now genital herpes is same virus transmitted to different area , through intimate contact ,usually non transmissable unless there is an outbreak . but not 100% safe
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Can a person have HSV and not have symptoms? Yes, they can, though it's more common in people who've had it a long time. In almost every case of people who've contracted it, they either are unaware because the symptoms are so little or unnoticeable, or they've had it for a long time and have little to no outbreaks. Those who've had it for a while have been known to have many years in between each flare up, and have little symptoms that show during a flare. Chicken pox, shingles, cold sores and of course, oral inside and genital sores are all types of herpes viruses. Both HSV-1 and 2 are interchangeable, meaning that someone could "only have oral herpes", or "cold sores", but can pass it to their partner via oral sex, which is deemed as type 2 (genital). The chances of acquiring oral or genital herpes, while having sex with a positive partner and barrier methods are used, are less when the positive partner doesn't have active symptoms; however, it's not a solid guarantee. Neither is "going bareback" with a positive person with no active symptoms. Most people who have HSV in general have both types going on at the same time, and the statistics for people who have it and might not know about it are about one in four. Just imagine, next time you're in a room of twenty people, there's a good chance that five of them have it. It's so common that most health establishments don't test for it unless asked to do such. I'm sorry to hear that you're experiencing this, and I would get tested for everything; better to know for sure what you have, or have been exposed to, and what you don't have. Then, sit down and have a talk with him. Your health, and ultimately his, are more important, should you both decide to continue. Good luck!  "Be who you are and say what you feel. Those who matter won't mind, and those who mind won't matter." ~ Dr. Seuss.
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