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A Little Bit More About Me  

rm_FwithJoe 68M
30 posts
12/29/2009 1:53 am
A Little Bit More About Me


(This little �blurb� will be part of every post from here on in. If you�re interested in me read the other posts! If you�re just stopping by, that�s fine. Do what you want. Like I said, this will be part of every post so sorry if it annoys you. It ain�t that long and I find it necessary).

So about a month ago my wife and I decided to give up smoking for the New Year. We decided to limit ourselves to only having a cigarette after sex. I haven�t had a smoke in over five weeks and she�s up to two packs a day.

Heated Affairs is badgering me to renew my membership even though I have over a week to go on my current status. They seem concerned since I don�t have my account set to auto-renewal and I may miss out on �all the fun�. I�m willing to take that risk. I�ve been on here for a couple of months hoping to catch some lightening in a bottle and so far, the bottle is empty. I�ve been hit by a bolt or two, though. I guess that goes with the territory.

Besides looking for that �very special some one� I also explore the various members. I look at the photos and view the videos. I have to say, some of them ain�t all that bad and I�m a bit jealous at times! For instance: Right now, as I�m writing this, the female half (apparently this is a couple) of �Betroc� is on line right now broadcasting a very erotic display. She has a magnificent body and is wearing a very sex and revealing outfit and is posing in a very enticing manner. It couldn�t be better if she was naked. In fact, this just might be better then naked! Who needs a strip club and eight dollar beers when you can have something like this? Just one of the reasons I may extend my membership another month.

There are a few video posts that I�ve also enjoyed. There seems to be some damn sexy woman out there willing to display their prowess and I have no problem with that. In fact, I find that particularly enticing. It�s one of those levels of sexuality that appeals to me. Being a sexual being, enjoying your sensuality, and are willing to demonstrate it to all that are interested. I�m not all that interested in psychoanalyzing the reasons on here, I just think it�s fucking hot! I certainly don�t require it as part of any relationship but, goddam, it certainly is a plus in my book! For the most part, I view it as a woman confident in her sexuality and aware enough to be secure in it. There aren�t all that many woman secure enough to expose themselves like that.

A few years back, under circumstances I�m not going in to now, I had a relationship with a woman who wanted to video us together. In fact, we hooked up because of a very erotic vid she sent me of herself. Eventually she �persuaded� me to video tape us having sex. A very (and by that I mean very) erotic POV video of her performing oral sex on me was made. I�d put it up against anything ever put on video as she managed to elicit a mammoth orgasm from me and artfully concluded the epic eruption. It was everything any man could ever want. That particular erotic masterpiece isn�t going to be published here since I respect her desire to be discreet. You lose�it was amazing! I�m infinitely proud of it since I thought that kind of orgasm was some where in my distant past.

The combination of a sexy woman, erotic environment, and preserving the moment created one of the most sensual encounters of my life. I get it. And God, do I ever want it again! I don�t mean I want to record it for posterity, I just want a fucking blowjob-tit fucking like I had then! We did have a �few� more satisfying encounters afterward (and more then a few before, by the way), but that relationship became a bit complicated and here I am. I simply didn�t want all the complications that eventually began to develop. I�ve got a pretty damn complicated life right now. The whole sexual aspect of a relationship is the appeal of my posting here in the first place. No strings and all that.

I just recently concluded that being �the nice guy� isn�t where I want to be. Sure, I�m the sensitive, caring man every single one of you (claims) wants with a decent sized cock and an insatiable sex drive, a sense of humor, and a caring attitude, but I hate wasting all that energy jacking-off. I�ll probably give this site another month, but I could really give a shit if it affords me the opportunity to continue posting for a select few while I linger in some sexual limbo. This is, after all, all about my dick. Not that posting here and exchanging the occasional e-mail with some fun and interesting people isn�t satisfying to a degree. It�s just not exactly the reason I�m here.

Being anonymous provides me with the opportunity to create another persona, I can be the �bad boy� all you ladies really want. I could send e-mails to the women that interest me or respond to any inquiries with �oh baby, baby, you make me so hot! I want to eat your pussy until you scream and squirm and then pound your wet cunt until you beg me to cum all over you� and so on, but I�m just not that guy. True, that�s what I want to do, but it�s not something I�d say after �hell-o�. I�m doomed to being �the nice guy� and I�m here making the proper adjustments. My typical initial response is usually subdued and I wait to hear her side. If I sense some desire, well, things quickly escalate. It�s a strange dichotomy since I do want that woman who responds to the more direct approach but I don�t want to be categorized as just another horny guy looking to get laid.

Besides, being this way has worked out just fine in the past but that was a long time ago. It just didn�t seem to work out in the long run so I�m relegated to the short-term and I�ll go from there. From every source I�ve been able to interrogate on the current �norms� I may be a bit old fashioned. Opening doors, helping her on with her coat, and all those antiquated values may not hold up too well in this millennium. I don�t know. And I certainly have no clue as to how to reconcile that on a site with the primary purpose (as far as I�m concerned) is finding a<b> fuck </font></b>buddy. At times I feel like I�m blazing some kind of new trail. The romantic, caring, thoughtful guy that is great in the sack and will<b> fuck </font></b>you like the or lady you crave to be. If I actually had confidence in that approach I wouldn�t even be here. My life would be just dandy! It didn�t work.

Since I�m writing a blog here and not my autobiography I should find a way to wrap this up. A strong, sexual relationship is a very big and important part of my life. I�ve yet to have a sexual encounter I didn�t like (let me think about that a moment�nope, I haven�t). The one nighters were indeed fun and what I was looking for at the moment. The longer relationships were quite satisfactory since they were longer because they were exactly what I wanted at the time (God, am I sounding like a selfish bastard or what?). My current situation could have been extremely satisfying until I got a cold, hard slap in the face from reality (which I�ve been getting far too often lately).

I�ve divided �relationships� in to two levels like most people do. The short-term, superficial encounters that are the result of the chemistry of hormones, and the longer ones that incorporate more cognitive features that result in a more substantial satisfaction pairing that can develop in to something very satisfying. Either one is fine with me. My penis isn�t that deep of a thinker at the moment. I could list all kinds of variations of the two levels I just described but this is Adult Friend Finders! And I�m keeping this simple. There�s a reason I�m not on �e-harmony�.

I really like sex god damn it, and that�s why I�m here and that�s why I�ll eventually cave-in to Heated Affairs�s urging to extend my membership another month. Let those bastards linger. Meanwhile, I�ll be pursuing the photos and videos, checking out my matches, and continue my relationship with the women I�ve met here. It is great fun but so far lacks the satisfaction I�m looking for. But it is better then the alternative. If you�ve not only read all this but the previous posts as well, you have a pretty decent idea of the guy you�re dealing with. I�m not going to recap all my virtues in that department. This works for you or it doesn�t. I have no problem with that!

I already determined that my next post will be a lot more explicit about certain things (including all you women who seem to be looking for a hard cock and a one-nighter and couples looking for that third dick) but for now I think this will do. Make of it what you want. That�s all that matters.

zandigal 59F
13016 posts
12/29/2009 9:32 am

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