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when adults act like spoiled teenagers.  

sam_hope31 46F
526 posts
4/25/2021 6:13 am
when adults act like spoiled teenagers.


I usually trust my gut when it comes to meeting people. You just get a sense of who they are and how their first approach goes.
Once in a while I let one slip by. I think that on this forum meeting people is tricky. It's all<b> visual </font></b>because lets face it, you can fake personality for a little while but eventually when/if you meet it shines through.
Rejection is so much harder after you've met. For me if I met someone and they didn't feel an attraction well then I move on. Some on the other hand tend to get ugly and mean. Rejection is not easy "I get it" but it's part of life.
You can't someone begging them to meet you and think it's going to work out. If someone doesn't reply take it for what it is and MOVE ON. Calling someone names and insulting them does not soften the blow. Just makes you look even more pathetic than the reasons you were already rejected!
My wants, desires, attraction are mine to decide and no matter what you say to try to make yourself feel better just reaffirms my decision to not continue the friendship!

Melsong 48F

4/26/2021 9:12 am

Well said. Thank-you for sharing. I find a lot become nasty the minute you tell them you aren’t interested, for whatever reason. Then they become almost harassing in trying to get you to change your mind, which then actually just reaffirms that I made the right choice. I’m never mean but will tell it like is sometimes. I’m what matters first and foremost. At my age, I’ll trust my instincts.


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