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feel a strong attraction for a married man
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feel a strong attraction for a married man I have been going to the gym regularly and often times I see this much older guy, maybe 60s that I find very attractive, it took me a while but I got the nerve to talk to him, finally asked him out but he told me he was married. I still see him at the gym often but I am not comfortable approaching him again, I wish he would say something. |
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Maybe just try being a friend and things may progress from there.
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happy fathers day
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did anything ever happen with this guy at the gym and are still in nyc
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2/26/2020 8:18 am |
I'm married and I would love to go out with you.
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In a way, I know what you mean. I, myself, feel a strong attraction for a married women and couples. Though I have yet to be with a married woman one on one in an affair, I've been with several couples in the past. How ever, you said in a couple earlier posts that in addition to guys, you are attracted to women of any age and that women are fun to play with, too. of which I am in complete agreement. I'm glad that you are also into girls, because I'm guessing that you get the attention of many of the female gender. As far as the older guy you see at the gym at times, you said that you find very attractive and that it took you a while but I got the nerve to talk to him and when you finally asked him out, he told me he was married. Well, how about this... and if you can get your nerve up, and I completely understand you being a bit gun-shy on this... ask him again, but tell him that you were interested in going out with both he and his wife as a couple. Start as friends with the both of them. You never know, but may be she might be interested in being the center of two guys; her husband and a younger guy. Then you'd have the best of both worlds... the older guy that you're attracted to and his older wife... and you did say you were attracted to women of any age... but then he may surprise you and be married to a younger woman closer to your age. You never know. They may have been thinking about finding a third to join them and have reached a point in their marriage that they are ready to expand their sexual horizons and would love to have a guy friend to hang out with and that they'd be comfortable with and to have join them sexually, as well. But you've already put one foot in the water. Try to put the other one in. He's already told you he was married and knows you're interested. Clarify that you'd like to get to know him and is wife as a couple. All he can say is no and then you'll know that there is no interest at all. Yes, that may be double turn down if he says no, but if you don't ask, a month, a year from now, you'll always wonder if he might have said yes to a thruple involvement with you and his wife.
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