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05/23/2021 Sunday Reflections  

tulsaliza 65F
5483 posts
5/23/2021 4:16 pm
05/23/2021 Sunday Reflections


I keep hoping that the rain will finally be done and we'll get the full on of the sun, dry things up and allow get out and do some much needed cleaning up of my hedges and flower beds.

Not mention being able get out and enjoy my patio oasis. I bought an aqua bike and rowing bars for my swim spa. Now I just have get out there and utilize them. Right now the rain is preventing from finishing up final preparations for the upcoming summer months.

I still can't get over how much nicer and more private my backyard is since I got the ricket little picket fence replaced with a 6 ft privacy fence and solar powered electric gate. I am amazed at how much more safe I feel. Not that I ever really was afraid or scared be here by myself, but the new fence has made realize just how exposed my backyard, patio, side yard on the other side of the garage as well as my garage.

Work hasn't been going all that well. The requirements be perfect at the positions is becoming ridiculous. I took the next days off step back away from the insanity and get my mind straight on all the stringent processes. it might be time for me set my sights on another position within this buiness. Though I feel that I would be trading in a growing set of problems with new problems, not mention going through more grueling training. The only attractive part of subjecting myself a new position and training would be that I could draw practically another paycheck from an education benefit my husband left due his 0% P&T. There is an educational benefit that I could tap if I have go into new training where I wor Definitely makes that move more attractive.

My standard poodle puppy is growing be such a big boy. He's the sweetest and very smart. He's costing a fortune take care of with some of the issues that come with a puppy but we're getting through it and he's just the best . He's great company though I sometimes feel very tied down having him. I don't like go off and leave him, but I have learned that short periods of time apart are good for us both. Short periods would be when I go the grocery store and various other errands.

My 63rd birthday is this coming Tuesday. I've decided I will go and buy a fabulous prime beef steak and if I can find a decent lobster, I'll buy one of those. Unless I opt order take out from one of the handful of restaurants around Tulsa that I enjoy eating at and from. I will also buy myself a little chocolate cake for one. I LOVE chocolate cake!!! I've learned over the that if I want something specific for my birthday, I'm the one that has buy it and/or make it.

I find myself reflecting on the previous birthdays I shared with my husband. All the amazing, sexy, swinger parties we either attended or hosted. My 50th birthday party was probably the most notable of all my birthdays. We hosted a Memorial weekend sex fest at my husband's 80 acres in southestern Oklahoma. Folks brought their 5th wheelers, their tents and blow up mattresses, massage tables, screened in tents. There was even a couple that came in their Winebago, they called it their swinging sex mobile!! From Friday night through Sunday afternoon, there was non-stop eating, drinking, sex, sex and more sex. There were groups of people having sex, I think the most in one of those sessions was about 4 couples, 3 single guys and 2 single women. I have to laugh because it reminded me of a naked wrestling match where folks would have to wait until they were tapped in to join the naked pile!!

It was truly a birthday to always remember and cherish!! I doubt I will ever find another man that I can feel safe enough to venture forth and engage in all the naughty,<b> nasty </font></b>fun my husband and I indulged in. He was truly one of a kind!! I have learned since his death that we truly did have a relationship that was truly special. We didn't hide things from each other, we communicated and experienced and explored all the sexual activities I could come up with. Some he participated in, some he was on the sidelines cheering me on and keeping me safe. His second ex-wife did not have that. I've learned that he was much more open and trusting with me. We were truly an in-tune sexual couple.

I am fully vacinated. The second Psfier does was a dozy. I had to take 2 sick days because it killed my ample ass. But I feel that I'm now fortified against that damned COVID!! I still carry my face masks with me and have them on hand if I feel I should use them. I've been the healthiest I've been in a long time with regard to no colds or flu and certainly not the COVID. Now things are starting to open up and get back to normal, what ever that means!!!

So, Happy Birthday to me!!! I'm going to do my best to enjoy the hell out of the next few days off of work! I hope everyone has a great work week ahead and a great upcoming Memorial Day weekend!!!

Pleasure's a sin, and sometimes sin's a pleasure...
- Lord Byron, Don Juan


CleavageFan4U 66M
69374 posts
5/23/2021 6:26 pm

Thanks for the update - seems you've got a lot going on, but good and less so.

An early Happy Birthday to you!

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scoupe42 60M

5/23/2021 8:12 pm

Happy Birthday!


moonbeam1 70M  
308 posts
5/24/2021 3:12 am

Happy Birthday dear and hope the weather breaks for you to enjoy your backyard with all the new privacy...great to hear from you..


lefty64014 66M
258 posts
5/24/2021 8:41 am

Happy Birthday and many more.


coachwhip09 68M  
173 posts
5/28/2021 11:11 am

Wishing you a Happy Birthday. May it be a wonderful day for you.


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