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Ex's, Nudity (of sorts), and big Ds. It's a weird combo
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Ex's, Nudity (of sorts), and big Ds. It's a weird combo Ha! What a weird way to start the day! I was on the train this morning headed into the office. I had an early Conference call so I've been up early, but only headed into the office past peak hour just so I wouldn't have to deal with the crowds. Anyhoo. So I was in the train, reading something and I look up and see an ex of mine from way ack in school (that's high school). I got a bit of a shock cos she looks exactly the same, except maybe she's twice the size she used to be, but her face was exactly the same. I went back to reading cos I really wasn't feeling sociable, but looked up a few seconds later and saw her smiling and waving at me. I went over to say hello and we exchanged pleasantries, like normal, sociable adults do  . It was a good 10-minute ride before I got off first, and we caught up as best we could. It was nice, and outwardly, wasn't awkward at all, cos the conversation felt smooth and friendly. But all the while listening to her, I couldn't help thinking to myself, I used to fuck this person! LOL. Shit. Is that normal behaviour? Like she's telling me how she's married, with 3 , and her oldest is 12 , and standing there listening, but at the back of my brain, memories of me sitting and grinding on her face just keeps flooding back. . It got to the point when I felt awkward from my own thoughts. Fuck. What the fuck's wrong with me Then right before lunchtime, I get 7, 8 msgs on my phone from this friend of mine telling me where I can go to get squat proof leggings. Ok, hang on - a bit of back story. Not a long one so, bear with me. Yesterday evening I accompanied her to the gym. We went to the gym she goes to and she signed me in as a guest considering not here long. We did one of those group classes, and I lifted some weights after that (only for about 10mins, I wasn't inspired). It was a 20-25min walk back to my hotel so I didn't bother changing and walked back. She offered t walk with me, which I thought was really nice of her. The entire way back, she kept telling me how see through my leggings were. First thing I thought was, why would she only tell me after it was over? She kept telling me how some people in the gym were looking, especially when I was squatting. I thought, they were gonna look anyway. The ratio of guys to girls in the free weights area was 7:2 or something like that. I couldn't think of anything to say to her that wouldn't draw out the conversation a little more, so I just thanked her and left. Then after seeing her texts, I realised, I really don't care. LOL Most, if not all of my workout bottoms, be it long leggings or shorts, are almost not squat proof. And I really don't care. Most of the time I just wanna work out. Hang on, I actually DO care.. I've got a thing against ugly panty lines, so to avoid that, I just don't wear any under. But yeah, other than that, I really can care less. I didn't want to get drawn out into explaining myself, so I just thanked her and said I'll check them out. Uh..there was something else that was digging at me. I went for a massage when I was in Jakarta about two weeks back. It was the one in the hotel so I made my appointment, threw on a dress and went down. The girl at the front counter told me they didn't have any female therapists at the moment and asked if I'd be ok with a male one. I told her it was ok, so she led me into a room, told me to take off my dress and lay on the massage bed in my underwear. Before I could say anything, she shut the door and left. So there I was, thinking, I don't have any underwear on. So was I suppose to lie nude? Most of the massage places I've been to kind of operate the same way, so I stripped, hung my dress up and laid on the massage bed. The room was air conditioned so I took a towel and covered myself. A knock on the door and a male voice asked if I was ready. I told him yes, and the door opened and he came in. I couldn't see him cos I was face down. He mumbled something in Indonesian (I can understand some of it, but I couldn't make out what he was asking), and he asked me again. I wasn't sure what he was saying, then he pulled the towel up for a peek and he shrieked (it was at this point I figured he was gay ) I looked up, and split second later, the counter lady was at the door. Apparently, he panicked cos I was nude and he didn't want to get in trouble, him being male and in an enclosed room with me. He kept saying in Indonesian, "why did she take everything off? Why did she take everything off?" LOL. The counter lady started tell me, only the dress. Only remove the dress. I had to explain that THAT, was exactly what I did. I just didn't have any underwear on. . I told them too, that I was ok with it. I just wanted a massage. But apparently there are laws (not surprising) that didn't allow them to. So yeah, no massage that day. I thought that was a f funny one to include in this blog.Okay. So now finally, onto what I was here to blog about A short while ago I hooked up with a fwb. We got up to quite a bit of fun, but one thing kept getting to me - the way he was sucking on my nipples. Now, don't get me wrong, I like attention to my nipples (along with everywhere else), and most of what he was doing was ok. But the way he was sucking and nibbling on my nipples, especially when I was on top, riding him, was a little off putting. He was suckling at them, like...weird. LOL. What was he expecting? Milk? Fuck no. I had to stop him a few times. Thank the heavens he actually made it up in some other areas (I literally told him, he should be thankful he had a big dick. Otherwise, he'd be too fucking weird to even bother getting together with! LO  And the fun you can have with big dicks though  . Now not saying I prefer big dicks, or that's a criteria (although I only agreed to date him cos I heard he had a rather larger than large dick ), but the fun. Suddenly spooning has a whole new sensation, or I can even spoon with me lying directly on top of him. I was suddenly trying all the porn star moves. LOL Like double-handed hand job, or almost deep throating AND jerking him off at the same time. But dick slaps though....not fun. Feels like getting hit in the head with a fucking baton! Hahahaa But yeah, that was fun while it lasted. I think it was only fun cos we didn't spend too much time together. I could already feel his presence grating on me I bet it was the same for him too. No wonder we split when we did. Heh. In any case, I've got a trip to HK coming up and that's always nice. Gotta make time for the bf who wore there so, that should be a little more fun. Oh damn. Sorry, wasn't expecting this to be such a long one but uh...well. Thanks for reading! |
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Dammit! I just remembered something else, but ah well. Next post then. Again, have a good rest of the week!
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11/21/2018 1:13 am |
Nice work
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Errr.......I got lost reading this......or do I have a poor attention span  I was hoping it would get back to the Girl on the Train and Grinding her Face 
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It does come to mind about past sexual experiences when I see old lovers out in public. Especially since I am from a real area and there are not many people. Then when you know and deal with the ex lovers new husband's and boyfriend's. It is not uncommon to set in a tavern with 20-25 people visiting then realize you have had sex with 6-7 of the females sitting at the table. Have a great day. Anything worth doing is worth doing right
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very enjoyable, 
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welcome to hk!
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Ah, memories!!!
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Dammit! I just remembered something else, but ah well. Next post then. Again, have a good rest of the week!  Am surprised the spa didn't have disposables. Or that they didn't have bottoms for guys that they could have used for you. Too bad for them; lost opportunity.
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I haven't had so many partners that I am likely to run into past partners. But it has happened. I had a fling with one woman in my 20s, and we got together again later as friends. I had hoped to get together with her again, but by that point she was in an exclusive relationship. We came across each other by chance on Facebook a few years ago, and we're still friends. Also in my 20s, I had something between a distance romance and a fling with a woman. (She was the first one to ask me to go down on her, and I'm so glad she did!) I had a job interview about a year later in her city, and she let me stay at her place. But alas, we didn't get it on again. We've been friends by way of paper mail ever since.
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