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6 degrees?! More like 3 degrees of separation -_-
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6 degrees?! More like 3 degrees of separation -_- Hiya! I've been trying to blog now for the past week or so. I've made two entries but they've disappeared, no doubt lost in hyperspace somewhere (do people even use the term hyperspace anymore? I am such an old foggie) But! Fuck that. Let's just move on. Sooo....baring any interruptions, this is today's entry. I'm back in Singapore and have been for a week now. Flew in last Friday for what was supposed to be a purely leisure trip, but it has now been extended into a somewhat work trip. I was supposed to fly in for the weekend cos I'm meeting the boyfriend here. He's got a shoot here and I'm kinda tagging along. I kinda let slip that I was in town and figured I'd squeeze in some work, and it has since escalated into an extended work trip. Which is fine, I don't mind being a bit productive. So that's that. When I got in last Friday, I met the boyfriend directly in the hotel room that he's in. I had imagined that we'd meet, embrace, and start tearing each other's clothes off in what would be a passionate, lustful embrace. Of course, fantasy vs reality was always going to be different. But wasn't expecting it to be a bit awkward. Cos it was awkward when we met. We embraced, and we sat and talked for awhile before we went out for dinner, then had a few drinks. It wasn't until late at night that we finally got going. We made up for it though cos we didn't leave the room until Sunday evening  I suppose the initial awkwardness was well worth it...? Does it work that way?I also, rather ambitiously, promised I'd take over her slot last Sunday morning for a run. It was a fun race, but the thing was, I had to meet them before the race, which was about 5am in the morning, collect her fun pack (which includes number tags, t-shirts and stuff) and run the race in her place. She had suffered some bad shin splints the week before and found out that I was going to be back the same weekend as the race, and asked me and I stupidly said yes. Anyways. Clearly, I didn't make it.  I had woken up early enough, but in the time when I was supposed to have met them and ran the race, I was a little occupied riding a dick that I was rather fond of. So...I guess the D won I told them I sprained my ankle and apologised, and had to fake a limp the first half of this week just to sell the lie. Heh...now THAT, is commitment I've lived here most of my life. I've moved away a few times for extended periods of time, but mostly, I've lived here. I only moved to Bali, like...2 plus years ago...? maybe even less. Anyhow. My point is, I've been back for a week and I've been reminded again how confusing this place can be.  I didn't pack much clothes cos I wasn't planning on staying this long. (Also, I wasn't planning to be clothed a lot of the time) So I had to get some, especially if I had to go into office for a good few days. I was out shopping and I see a lotta girls in bootyshorts, which is nice. It IS hot AF here. No one bats an eyelid. But as soon as they see a nipple sticking through a t-shirt, I start getting "the look". I suppose its a give and take. Can't wine's all. heheh.. Which bring me to - a little downblouse incident - mine vs Celine. There's an IT guy here who I've emailed on more than one occasion. We've liaised a lot since I joined and he's always been helpful. I've never met him the last few times I've been here but this time, I have. He's a nice guy. And oddly, every bit of the stereotyped "IT guy" image I have in my head. LOL. He's been helping me with a few things this past week and I keep catching him looking down my blouse. LOL. Like when I'm over at his desk and I'm bent over trying to look at the screen, I keep catching him looking down my blouse I thought, after the first few times, he'd be more cool about it, I mean, it IS the same thing, be it day one or day five. Anyhow. He needs to work on his discretion. Maybe I'll tell him On to downblous 2. Celine is this French lady in the office. We're on the same team for a few projects, so she's been coming round to speak to me a few times. Earlier in the week, I was at my desk and she came round, bent over and was speaking to me. It must be a girl thing (like when she's speaking to another girl) cos she really wasn't bothered about it, so i really couldn't help looking but I noticed she had on a really nice, black lacy bra on. It's nice enough that I actually contemplated asking her where she got it But I think that'd be a really bad faux pas (is there ever a good faux pas?!). I'm guessing I have to let this go Lastly, this being such a tiny place, socially as well as geographically, I bumped into an ex a few nights ago. I bumped into him over lunch, we chatted for a bit, then left. We've been each other's booty-call on more than a few occasions after we split, so the relationship has always been good. So it wasn't a huge surprise when he then texted me a few times during the day and it quickly got a bit flirty. I then bumped into his and his girlfriend that very evening when I was having dinner with the boyfriend. They were seated diagonally across me and his girlfriend had her back to me, and I was facing them. We greeted each other but said nothing else and went about our own dates, as they were. I made it a point to not look over as much cos I really didn't want to spoil my own date. But once or twice, when I did peer over, I saw him (the ex) peeking over. Of course, I went and kinda pushed it a little. Before anything, I should add that I'm a little embarrassed by this. Towards to end of our meal, I excused myself and went to the ladies and removed my panties. I came back to my seat, hiked my skirt up a little higher than necessary and angled myself so I was facing the ex at his table. The thought of what I was doing kinda got me a bit excited so while we were sharing an ice-cream, I told the boyfriend to stretch out his hand under the table and I passed him my underwear. He saw it, and laughed, and promised to do all sorts of things to me. So we were giggling like a bunch of teenagers at our tables and at the corner of my eye, I see the ex's girlfriend getting up and walking towards the washroom. I faced the boyfriend again but turned my hips to face the ex, and uncrossed my legs and kept it apart for a good half minute before the boyfriend and I got up and left. By the time we settled our bill and walked out, we passed the ex and his girlfriend at their table and we said our brief goodbyes and we left. By the time we got back to our room, I had all but forgotten about it cos the boyfriend and I were really going at it. I got up the next morning and check my hone and I got 8 msgs from the x at 4am in the morning telling me how he enjoyed seeing me over dinner There's been a few back and forth raunchy texts between us but I haven't really had time to reciprocate. I'm not even sure if anything will happen with this booty call, cos I think I might be trying to balance too many things at once. I texted the husband to tell him about it and he, at least, enjoyed it Which is also a bit odd, cos the husband and I are on a sort of a break from each other, hence my trip our here. We've been arguing a lot the past few months but....we've maintained contact and are still communicating often enough so, I think it's helping.Anyhow, it's a fucking Friday and I have to get back to work -_- I've got drinks with the team later this evening and the boyfriend (who went up to KL yesterday for another shoot) will be back tomorrow so, that's my weekend sorted. Then it's more work next week, then back to Bali. Have a good weekend y'all!! Will post again soon. |
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Aaaaaaaand it's a long one. Thanks for reading!! I appreciate the time IF you read it
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I always love reading about your busy, sexy life. Thanks for sharing
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Hmmm.......What a tease you are  Although I think you were partly doing it to get yourself going, as much as the ex Plus the thrill of your bf not realizing you were teasing the ex with your gash flash......Arrrghhh....i'm confused As to the IT guy (well, any guy) its like a goldfish in a bowl, it's a new experience every-time you get a chance to peep at it, even if it's the same breast over and over and over again
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Singapore is a city state, so I suppose bumping into folk who like the same things and places is very likely.
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By the time we got back to our room, I had all but forgotten about it cos the boyfriend and I were really going at it - hope there were no unplanned trips to A&E this time.  Perhaps the only safe time to complement someone on their underwear is if you were sharing a washing machine or changing room at the swimming pool? But mentioning it at the office? Hmm, I dunno, perhaps if you were really good friends it would be OK. Although I think it will work with two females, not sure how that would go down if one guy said it to another! Mind you, given the attire some wear to the office (I'm thinking low-slung waistbands) you often get an unintentional eyeful of tomorrow's washing when they bend over.  Enjoy your weekend.
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Although it's something people aren't supposed to do in an office, I totally understand the IT guy getting distracted. I've seen my wife dressed, partially dressed, and naked, almost every day since we met. But I still peek when her clothes hang in a partially revealing sort of way. Peeking at a different woman's breasts, with the added attraction of novelty, would be close to irresistible, though in a professional environment I'd make the effort to keep things professional. There's a woman I know because she and I both frequent the same business around the same time of day. We talk when we have time because of shared interests (science and such), and she has an amazing body. It's probably a good thing that she wears close-fitting clothes that aren't going to accidentally flash me, because I don't think I could keep my eyes off. In the case of the French woman, I think tone of voice matters a lot. Given your different native languages and geographic origins, there's a risk that your language and body language might risk misunderstanding, but as long as your tone of voice conveys admiration for the clothes and not her body, a compliment is probably safe. There is also the possible subtext that if you can see her undergarments, guys can see them too. As long as that subtext comes across the right way -- either "you're giving them a good tease" if that's her intention or "you might want to cover up better" if she's more modest -- it should be OK. Of course, if you think she might be interested in women, then it could lead to something fun you can write about on a future blog message. The naughty flirting with the ex and the boyfriend (and the ex's date, if I read correctly) sounds hot. I'd be pleased to be flashed by a woman, even if it was just a flash, and not an invitation for more naughtiness.
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Aaaaaaaand it's a long one. Thanks for reading!! I appreciate the time IF you read it
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Why is sex so taboo sometimes?? That I dont understand in this world its so much,, I say we all enjoy...
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I always love reading about your busy, sexy life. Thanks for sharing
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Hmmm.......What a tease you are Although I think you were partly doing it to get yourself going, as much as the ex Plus the thrill of your bf not realizing you were teasing the ex with your gash flash......Arrrghhh....i'm confused As to the IT guy (well, any guy) its like a goldfish in a bowl, it's a new experience every-time you get a chance to peep at it, even if it's the same breast over and over and over again Goldfish in a bowl
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Singapore is a city state, so I suppose bumping into folk who like the same things and places is very likely.
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LOL Thanks for stopping by. And don't hold your breath on Celine..
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By the time we got back to our room, I had all but forgotten about it cos the boyfriend and I were really going at it - hope there were no unplanned trips to A&E this time. Perhaps the only safe time to complement someone on their underwear is if you were sharing a washing machine or changing room at the swimming pool? But mentioning it at the office? Hmm, I dunno, perhaps if you were really good friends it would be OK. Although I think it will work with two females, not sure how that would go down if one guy said it to another! Mind you, given the attire some wear to the office (I'm thinking low-slung waistbands) you often get an unintentional eyeful of tomorrow's washing when they bend over. Enjoy your weekend. Trust me....A&E visits are NEVER part of the plan. Thanks for stopping by. Hope you have a good weekend too
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Although it's something people aren't supposed to do in an office, I totally understand the IT guy getting distracted. I've seen my wife dressed, partially dressed, and naked, almost every day since we met. But I still peek when her clothes hang in a partially revealing sort of way. Peeking at a different woman's breasts, with the added attraction of novelty, would be close to irresistible, though in a professional environment I'd make the effort to keep things professional. There's a woman I know because she and I both frequent the same business around the same time of day. We talk when we have time because of shared interests (science and such), and she has an amazing body. It's probably a good thing that she wears close-fitting clothes that aren't going to accidentally flash me, because I don't think I could keep my eyes off. In the case of the French woman, I think tone of voice matters a lot. Given your different native languages and geographic origins, there's a risk that your language and body language might risk misunderstanding, but as long as your tone of voice conveys admiration for the clothes and not her body, a compliment is probably safe. There is also the possible subtext that if you can see her undergarments, guys can see them too. As long as that subtext comes across the right way -- either "you're giving them a good tease" if that's her intention or "you might want to cover up better" if she's more modest -- it should be OK. Of course, if you think she might be interested in women, then it could lead to something fun you can write about on a future blog message. The naughty flirting with the ex and the boyfriend (and the ex's date, if I read correctly) sounds hot. I'd be pleased to be flashed by a woman, even if it was just a flash, and not an invitation for more naughtiness. I'm sure I'm guilty of that too but I'll leave that to others to comment. Thanks for stopping by
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A while but worth every bit. Have a great week ahead
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Why is sex so taboo sometimes?? That I dont understand in this world its so much,, I say we all enjoy... 
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Ha as always entertaining and I must say if everyone in SG was more open about being a bit naughty here and there then maybe people here won't be so uptight and do silly things like block the doors on public transport and cut queues...probably because they will be looking for an ex flashing them ;p. Thanks for blogging.
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You're quite prolific
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